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Old 06-28-2008, 01:59 AM
 
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Hate kids?

Don't worry, they hate me too. Kids are irritating.

I'll quit my complaining. If girls are so bad and you don't want kids, get a real woman. There. I'll leave you alone because I'm an like annoying good men.
Thanks for the advice.

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Old 06-28-2008, 06:25 PM
 
Location: AR
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thanks For The Advice.
Derp! I Got Dizzed Omgz

Im Gonna Leave 4everz
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Old 06-28-2008, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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You know what? Kids are raised that they don't have to respect ANY authority...parents will go to bat for their kids with the school, with the neighbor, with the law...doesn't matter. "My kid's an angel!" No, he or she is NOT. And that's from experience with actual kids.
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Old 06-29-2008, 02:39 AM
 
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You know what? Kids are raised that they don't have to respect ANY authority...parents will go to bat for their kids with the school, with the neighbor, with the law...doesn't matter. "My kid's an angel!" No, he or she is NOT. And that's from experience with actual kids.
You're so right! Taking kids to school, its like going back to school. When I was in high school, alot of kids were victims of gang violence.

Parenting will just bring me down even more. What's so sad is that women buy into "women are made to procreate" or "kids are a blessing". I don't think anybody should have kids in California, seeing what condition it is.

I get grief from parents, and its always from the mothers. These mothers, they're the worse when it comes to childfree harassment. They can say I'm negative. Sure I'm negative, because most women are having kids just because.

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Old 06-29-2008, 10:08 AM
 
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You're so right! Taking kids to school, its like going back to school. When I was in high school, alot of kids were victims of gang violence.

Parenting will just bring me down even more. What's so sad is that women buy into "women are made to procreate" or "kids are a blessing". I don't think anybody should have kids in California, seeing what condition it is.

I get grief from parents, and its always from the mothers. These mothers, they're the worse when it comes to childfree harassment. They can say I'm negative. Sure I'm negative, because most women are having kids just because.
Your views may be true of some people. They're not true of all.

If they're true of you personally, then by all means, don't have children. Not everyone should have children.

But your putting down every woman who wants children is as narrow as people putting you down for not wanting them.

If you really want to change a world that you see as harmful, scary and negative, then start with yourself. That's the only place any of us can start. Yes, you seem to often come off as negative. If you can broaden your horizons and see the world not as all bad, nor all good, then you'll start seeing things as they really are.

I live in California and I have children, and I am a good mother. And my husband is a good father. We don't have any gang violence in my area. It doesn't make sense to recommend that the entire state not have children.

I am sorry for your experiences.
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Old 06-29-2008, 10:12 AM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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I find it very easy to avoid women, whether they're attractive or not, whether they're around my age or not. I just don't trust them too well.

Each attractive girl I pass, I get real suspicious that they're aren't my type and might cause trouble. I don't even try to approach or talk to them, no matter how good they look.

Are a majority of women untrustworthy and unfaithful?
I think we need an anti-social forum.
What exactly do you hope to find? For that matter what is YOUR TYPE?
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Old 06-29-2008, 10:31 AM
 
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I think we need an anti-social forum.
What exactly do you hope to find? For that matter what is YOUR TYPE?
My type is a slim woman, permanantly childfree, cool, she can be a video gamer, outgoing, and has something good going for herself. I don't want a liar, a woman who has or wants kids, nor a gold digger.
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Old 06-29-2008, 10:39 AM
 
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Your views may be true of some people. They're not true of all.

If they're true of you personally, then by all means, don't have children. Not everyone should have children.

But your putting down every woman who wants children is as narrow as people putting you down for not wanting them.

If you really want to change a world that you see as harmful, scary and negative, then start with yourself. That's the only place any of us can start. Yes, you seem to often come off as negative. If you can broaden your horizons and see the world not as all bad, nor all good, then you'll start seeing things as they really are.

I live in California and I have children, and I am a good mother. And my husband is a good father. We don't have any gang violence in my area. It doesn't make sense to recommend that the entire state not have children.

I am sorry for your experiences.
I wouldn't be in this situation today if any of this happen at my old school and from what I've seen on reality television. I'm tired of seeing young women come on Maury and do anything to have a child, trying to find the baby daddy, etc.

What has become the unacceptable has become the acceptable. For the younger generation these days, its "normal" to have kids at a young age and not get married. This generation, its the worse. Its way worse than the past generation.

This is why I stayed single for most of my life. I wouldn't want no girl go "fast" on me and if anything happened negative, my life and plans would be ruined.

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Old 06-29-2008, 10:49 AM
 
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So you want to find a woman who doesn't want to have a kid

You are a boy and women your age aren't women they are girls. So chill the f out and worry about this when you are 25. Now go play video games and watch cartoons!
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Old 06-29-2008, 11:02 AM
 
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So you want to find a woman who doesn't want to have a kid

You are a boy and women your age aren't women they are girls. So chill the f out and worry about this when you are 25. Now go play video games and watch cartoons!
Why are you getting so hostile towards me? And I'm not a "boy", and my chances my be low in the future.
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