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Why? Are you ugly? And you do spout out a lot of negative attitude towards women on this board. It wouldn't surprise me if women in real life can tell you have these negative thoughts towards them. You do have a lot of negative energy surrounding you and your posts.
Back on topic, I approach guys all the time for friendship. And if I were single, if I liked a guy enough as a friend and was interested in dating him, I would ask him out. But no way would I just come out and ask out some random stranger on a date... not in this day and age.
No, I'm not ugly. If I posted my face and someone from LA saw what I've post, girls will say "That's the dude who's making negative generalizations from city-data". It would be too bad for my chances.
Like I said, I'm not ugly, but I barely smile because looking at the situation with the younger generation and how things are these days.
I was never scared of rejection. Maybe because I wasn't rejected that often (I was quite a looker in my youth )
But also - THERE ARE SO MANY single men out there - there are a TON...often times I look down at the ground from the window seat of an airplane and think "WOW there are a ton of people in this world - I probably won't even meet 5% of them"
And yet two people come together. Just two - out of what 6 billion??
Who cares if you get rejected - so you realize how many opportunities there are to just say "Hi"?
Besides the BEST part is test driving all the different personalities (fun!) - it makes the security of picking just the right one that much stronger.
I was beginning to wonder why girls never approach guys? Why does it always have to be the guys to approach girls? Why do guys always have to do the hard work; the approaching, the greeting, the 'asking out' routine', all that?
My current lady friend approached me and asked me out. It's a nice change of pace. What's even better is when you later find out from her friends that she never does that.
Major ego strokes.
What was strange was that she used almost the exact words Revelated stated - "I like you. I want to spend time with you and see where it goes."
I was beginning to wonder why girls never approach guys? Why does it always have to be the guys to approach girls? Why do guys always have to do the hard work; the approaching, the greeting, the 'asking out' routine', all that?
Now I've never approached a girl, not even asking her out because I can't take the risk of rejection. One girl did approach me back in high school, but that was it.
When I was your age I had to hit a woman in the head with a club and drag her back to my cave by her hair just to get a date, not much has changed since then.
I met my wife under the strangest of circumstances when I was 20, one day you will meet someone out of the blue without expecting it, get to talking, and really hit it off. You have a lot more time than you realize to meet plenty of women, chances are you will really click with one of them.
When I was your age I had to hit a woman in the head with a club and drag her back to my cave by her hair just to get a date, not much has changed since then.
I met my wife under the strangest of circumstances when I was 20, one day you will meet someone out of the blue without expecting it, get to talking, and really hit it off. You have a lot more time than you realize to meet plenty of women, chances are you will really click with one of them.
Only if they're my type. I have limitations and preference for women. That's just me.
No, I'm not ugly. If I posted my face and someone from LA saw what I've post, girls will say "That's the dude who's making negative generalizations from city-data". It would be too bad for my chances.
Like I said, I'm not ugly, but I barely smile because looking at the situation with the younger generation and how things are these days.
Well how about you stop with the negative generalizations about women? If you are ashamed to have real life women associate your negative comments on the internet with who you are in real life, then you should stop making them. You are being dishonest about yourself in real life.
Just like you would like a girlfriend that you can trust and loves you 100%, she would want a man that trust and loves her 100% back. And I certainly wouldn't want to date a man who posts the crap you do about women and black women on the internet. That's like leading a secret life and being dishonest about the person you are.
Well how about you stop with the negative generalizations about women? If you are ashamed to have real life women associate your negative comments on the internet with who you are in real life, then you should stop making them. You are being dishonest about yourself in real life.
Just like you would like a girlfriend that you can trust and loves you 100%, she would want a man that trust and loves her 100% back. And I certainly wouldn't want to date a man who posts the crap you do about women and black women on the internet. That's like leading a secret life and being dishonest about the person you are.
Now when did race play part? When did I mention race in any of my threads? And why are women always changing their minds on certain aspects? Why do most women want kids? When was the last time I mentioned race?
Because that's how the human race has continued itself, by women (and men) wanting to procreate.
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