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Old 07-07-2008, 04:03 PM
 
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Because that's how the human race has continued itself, by women (and men) wanting to procreate.
What's the point of the human race? I'm not trying to complain, but I mean, the human race is tearing itself apart anyway. Would it be harsh to say that there should be a decrease in the world population and its time for the human race to discontinue?

 
Old 07-07-2008, 04:05 PM
miu
 
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Now when did race play part? When did I mention race in any of my threads? And why are women always changing their minds on certain aspects? Why do most women want kids? When was the last time I mentioned race?
You mention race all of the time in regards to who you would like to date! You're the one that keeps saying that you are a black guy who only wants to date white women. You don't want to date black women because you have stereotyped them and think that they all want to be baby mommas. You've made numerous posts about your desire for a white girlfriend. It's not a secret to any of us on this board.

But you are only 19 years old. You still have a lot of growing up to do.
 
Old 07-07-2008, 04:07 PM
 
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You mention race all of the time in regards to who you would like to date! You're the one that keeps saying that you are a black guy who only wants to date white women. You don't want to date black women because you have stereotyped them and think that they all want to be baby mommas. You've made numerous posts about your desire for a white girlfriend. It's not a secret to any of us on this board.

But you are only 19 years old. You still have a lot of growing up to do.
I've never made stereotypes about sisters and I haven't talking about race on this forum in a while. Also, I did date some black girls back in elementary and middle school.
 
Old 07-07-2008, 04:29 PM
 
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Like I said, I'm not ugly, but I barely smile
Smiling is something really easy that you CAN DO, that you can change about yourself, and it instantly makes you more attractive.

Also pay attention to the things you say, as others have pointed out, including the things you say in your head to yourself. Those sorts of beliefs are self-fulfilling. Saying things to yourself like "The world is full of wonderful people" is a good place to start. Your beliefs and talk are powerful, they literally create the reality you are now experiencing, so it is valuable to pay attention to them and change them in ways that improve the quality of your life.

Plus like miu says, negativity drives people away in droves, and positive attitudes are more attractive and pleasant to be around.
 
Old 07-07-2008, 04:33 PM
 
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Smiling is something really easy that you CAN DO, that you can change about yourself, and it instantly makes you more attractive.

Also pay attention to the things you say, as others have pointed out, including the things you say in your head to yourself. Those sorts of beliefs are self-fulfilling. Saying things to yourself like "The world is full of wonderful people" is a good place to start. Your beliefs and talk are powerful, they literally create the reality you are now experiencing, so it is valuable to pay attention to them and change them in ways that improve the quality of your life.

Plus like miu says, negativity drives people away in droves, and positive attitudes are more attractive and pleasant to be around.
I try to smile and laugh but its weak. I try to think of something funny, but it doesn't work. What I can think of is funny is the Maury show and Pulp Fiction.

Maybe if I had a jheri curl looking like Rick James or Michael Jackson, maybe that would draw the girls. I'm so into the 80's.
 
Old 07-07-2008, 04:37 PM
 
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Maybe if I had a jheri curl looking like Rick James or Michael Jackson, maybe that would draw the girls. I'm so into the 80's.
You could always just wear one white glove...

But I think the public perception of that might be a bit harsh.
 
Old 07-07-2008, 04:40 PM
 
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You could always just wear one white glove...

But I think the public perception of that might be a bit harsh.
I guess so, because I'm losing my hair anyway. I wish I found a way to be bald permanantly.
 
Old 07-07-2008, 04:41 PM
miu
 
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I've never made stereotypes about sisters and I haven't talking about race on this forum in a while. Also, I did date some black girls back in elementary and middle school.
You love posting in threads about interracial relationships. You even bumped up an old thread that was ONE YEAR old just to post in it. The last post before yours was posted on 07-31-2007, 10:11 AM, and your post is time stamped 07-03-2008, 03:17 PM. You must have been pretty motivated in your search for interracial relationship threads to find that one to revive.

//www.city-data.com/forum/polit...tionships.html

So what's your idea of a while? Just three days ago, you made this post:

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I am so happy I wasn't born in the South. I am so happy I was born and live in California, since its pretty liberal for interracial relationships. If you look at my earlier threads, you'll see that I'm all for it. I'm black who finds girls outside my face more attractive, mostly white (the ones who are into black guys).
 
Old 07-07-2008, 04:42 PM
 
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I guess so, because I'm losing my hair anyway. I wish I found a way to be bald permanantly.
That's easy - just take my last name.
 
Old 07-07-2008, 04:45 PM
 
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You love posting in threads about interracial relationships. You even bumped up an old thread that was ONE YEAR old just to post in it. The last post before yours was posted on 07-31-2007, 10:11 AM, and your post is time stamped 07-03-2008, 03:17 PM. You must have been pretty motivated in your search for interracial relationship threads to find that one to revive.

//www.city-data.com/forum/polit...tionships.html

So what's your idea of a while? Just three days ago, you made this post:
OMG! You're going through my posts? Is there something wrong because I have a personal preference? That was on another forum.
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