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Old 07-16-2008, 05:40 PM
 
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So I went on a date with a Mexican guy. I am really attracted to him. Kindly note he is the White Mexican type so he looks more Spanish and really light skinned, very tall. I am Asian. We have been communicating for a while so he asked me out. The date went well but he didn't make a move! I really wanted him to touch me but he didn't.

I was wondering if he was even attracted to me and I asked him. He said he's a gentleman and he doesn't do things like that in public blah blah..Anyway I told him I wanted to go home with him. So we went back to his place and fooled around.

He emailed me after and said he had a lot of fun and he felt really lucky to have met me. I texted him y'day and said I want to Moderator cut: please, don't try and bypass profanity filters him again. But now he's playing games and saying he's busy etc. He is extremely successful and travels a lot and I am sure he's not short on women.

Don't Mexican guys like it when girls come on strong? Did I kill my chances?? I mean we have been talking forever and he is obviously attracted to me. I don't get what the problem is?

I really want to screw him and have babies with him. What do I do??!

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Old 07-16-2008, 05:54 PM
 
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Are you for real? Honey, all men like your type.........that is, just to bang. Dammmmmm girl you are bold, you are definately SKANK MATERIAL. My man is a Mexican man and yeah, he definately had his share of skanks, but thats all they were to him and that's exactly how he treated them.

I'm sure he'll bang you again, and again, and again, but honey get a clue if you think he's going to have anything more than a f**** with you.

You f****ed up, he was being a man and showing you respect cus he liked you and you just blew it. You are in the f**** around category, definately NOT having babies with category.
 
Old 07-16-2008, 05:55 PM
 
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Originally Posted by fresnochick View Post
Are you for real? Honey, all men like your type.........that is, just to bang. Dammmmmm girl you are bold, you are definately SKANK MATERIAL. My man is a Mexican man and yeah, he definately had his share of skanks, but thats all they were to him and that's exactly how he treated them.

I'm sure he'll bang you again, and again, and again, but honey get a clue if you think he's going to have anything more than a f**** with you.

You f****ed up, he was being a man and showing you respect cus he liked you and you just blew it. You are in the f**** around category, definately NOT having babies with category.
I strongly agree.
 
Old 07-16-2008, 05:56 PM
 
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I need real advice.. I am aggressive and bold and go after what I want. The bf's I have had liked that! So are you saying he was intimidated??

As for him being at the clinic I am pretty sure I didn't give him anything since I get myself checked out every other month. So if anything I would be the one worrying about what some other chick gave him.
 
Old 07-16-2008, 05:58 PM
 
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Wow, are you for real? If so, have a little self respect for yourself.
 
Old 07-16-2008, 05:58 PM
 
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Originally Posted by fresnochick View Post
Are you for real? Honey, all men like your type.........that is, just to bang. Dammmmmm girl you are bold, you are definately SKANK MATERIAL. My man is a Mexican man and yeah, he definately had his share of skanks, but thats all they were to him and that's exactly how he treated them.

I'm sure he'll bang you again, and again, and again, but honey get a clue if you think he's going to have anything more than a f**** with you.

You f****ed up, he was being a man and showing you respect cus he liked you and you just blew it. You are in the f**** around category, definately NOT having babies with category.
why am I a skank?? Just because I am forward and don't play games like having a man wait 2 months to put out etc??

I already made it clear - I WAS ATTRACTED TO HIM AND WANTED HIM.

I don't want anybody and everybody. If you read my other posts I am the definition of picky and high maintenance..
 
Old 07-16-2008, 06:48 PM
 
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Getting checked every other month? The only reason you would need to go so often is if there are several new guys all the time. Just please be careful!!!
 
Old 07-16-2008, 06:52 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Old 07-16-2008, 06:55 PM
 
Location: Sherman Oaks, CA
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This may be a troll, but just in case I'm wrong, let me say this:

It doesn't matter if he's Mexican, first of all. That's irrelevant to what happened. If you show a man that you want sex immediately like you did, a switch automatically flips, and he sees you as a play toy. That's it. If you had talked to him, and let him get to know you as a person, then he would have respected you. By the time you finally had sex, he'd probably call you the next day - or even be there to wake up beside you. And if you're ever wondering if you can go from being a booty call to the mother of his future children, no. Things don't work that way. And truthfully, why should he respect you if you don't respect yourself?

If you truly "think like a man", and see nothing wrong with sex on the first date, don't be surprised if sex is all he wants from you, and don't be surprised if he never calls you again. Men want to build a life with someone they respect, not a woman who is so easy.
 
Old 07-16-2008, 07:18 PM
 
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We have known each other for 4 months. A lot of talking and deciding if we wanted to date. so you gotta give me some credit for holding out till then. True it was our first "official" date but then againn it was time to seal the deal!
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