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We have known each other for 4 months. A lot of talking and deciding if we wanted to date. so you gotta give me some credit for holding out till then. True it was our first "official" date but then againn it was time to seal the deal!
Well, you said you wanted to bear children and make out with him, and it sounds like you're going a bit too fast. Don't you think?
But what do I know. I personally think girls like that are a bit too fast. I can honesty say that fast girls and the one who want kids, they're very unattractive to me.
this is a joke, right?
and did you really use those words when telling him you wanted to be intimate again wtih him? if you did, wow, then i am so sorry, but it just doesnt show much class, and therefore wont get any respect from a man.
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So I went on a date with a Mexican guy. I am really attracted to him. Kindly note he is the White Mexican type so he looks more Spanish and really light skinned, very tall. I am Asian. We have been communicating for a while so he asked me out. The date went well but he didn't make a move! I really wanted him to touch me but he didn't.
I was wondering if he was even attracted to me and I asked him. He said he's a gentleman and he doesn't do things like that in public blah blah..Anyway I told him I wanted to go home with him. So we went back to his place and fooled around.
He emailed me after and said he had a lot of fun and he felt really lucky to have met me. I texted him y'day and said I want to fu-k him again. But now he's playing games and saying he's busy etc. He is extremely successful and travels a lot and I am sure he's not short on women.
Don't Mexican guys like it when girls come on strong? Did I kill my chances?? I mean we have been talking forever and he is obviously attracted to me. I don't get what the problem is?
I really want to screw him and have babies with him. What do I do??!
Last edited by NOTAM; 07-16-2008 at 07:38 PM..
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I don't think this is about Mexican men, just men in general.
You might have been talking online for 4 months but you slept with him on the first date? If he is traditional at all, he probably thinks our easy. If he is doing what you say now, I would move on and try to be a little more circumspect next time.
are you pretty young? i would guess you are, because if were older, you would have learned that infatuation is transient, and definitely not a sign that there is a future with someone. you dont really even truly know him. infatuation, simple physical or sexual attraction are just not enough to keep a relationship solid and long-term. think about what your goals are in life, your priorities, your interests..how does his mesh with yours? how compatible are you OUTSIDE OF BED? is there a "meeting of the minds", not just bodies? do you feel like he truly is your kindred spirit or soulmate? it doesnt sound like you have had a real life relationship with him long enough to determine whether you see a future with him. has he seen you at your worst? has he seen you cry? has he been wtih you when you have been sick or have gone to the ER? we all put on those "facades", put our best face on, when we initially meet someone in real life....true colors dont come out for a while...sometimes not even before marriage!
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Sorry.. I am just infatutaed and I really like this guy.. i am going crazy is all. I see a future with him.
Last edited by NOTAM; 07-16-2008 at 08:05 PM..
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1. What does being asian have to do with anything?
2. Mexican man will look at their future woman with children with a lot of respect
3. Maybe he thinks you are immature
4. Did you tell him you want a baby with him,if so you scared him
5. He sees you as a booty call,how can he respect you?
Talk about rushing to the alter... 4 months and already talking about having babies with him.. and a future.. that is probably why he is staying away for now.. either that or he is really busy..
Stand back and give him some room.. if he returns.. then you are good to go.. if not.. move on to your next man that you want to do on your first date... (which I wouldnt do personally, but as you say.. we are all different people).
Good Luck on your relationship with this person!
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