You're view on nightclubs and women in their 30s +.

[brocco]

i felt too old to be at a "club" when i turned 21...

[PinkBunny]

Originally Posted by jerseygal4u

Yes...has to do with youngsters causing trouble.

Is that something really new and how widespread is it?

[PinkBunny]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

What I'm wondering is why, by their 30's, the guys haven't figured out that clubs aren't where you meet women. Doesn't that get expensive, going to a club all the time, just so you can try to pick up women? There are so many free venues for meeting women. I guess the guys like to go to bars and clubs to hang out with their guy friends and let off steam??

Guys, clubs and bars aren't your best bet. Do what women do: join organizations, go hiking, volunteer, chat at the grocery store, etc. etc.

[This has been a public service announcement.]

Maybe they aren't looking for anything serious? Plentyyyyy of men go to clubs expecting to get laid, even the ones that won't admit it. I doubt that many of them actually expect to find someone serious.

[LS Jaun]

Originally Posted by ASOT

I see plenty of people in their 30's, 40's, even older and it doesn't make me think of them any differently.

Add 20's and this would be the places I go to, but they are sports bars and Pubs and not really night clubs.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by PinkBunny

Maybe they aren't looking for anything serious? Plentyyyyy of men go to clubs expecting to get laid, even the ones that won't admit it. I doubt that many of them actually expect to find someone serious.

Judging by the complaints on this forum about disappointing results finding "quality" women (i.e. relationship-worthy) women in clubs, it looks like a sizable number do go with that expectation. But your point is well-taken.

[amanda0808]

I went to a nightclub a couple of weekends ago that was inhabited by mostly twentysomethings. i felt very out of place and didn't stay long.