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I would not engage in a relationship with a girly man or weak man. How could you feel you were with a MAN if he wasnt acting or looking like a real man. No strength , no charcter, and no backbone. Not for me!
I agree. I had one date with this cute guy who had such feminine mannerisms and a soft voice. All I could think the entire time he was trying to go further on, was, "Is he Gay?" I need a big, real MAN! He turned me off.
Yuck. Femine men are wierd and freak me out. Ewwww. Ick. Dont date anyone you can beat up.
Agree. They set off my gaydar. I don't need a football player, but a regular guy, not a woman dressed like guy. I have girlfriends and a husband, fortunately they are not similar.
True. They just haven't come out of the closet, yet. I always feel sorry for their wives because so many of these men haven't yet accepted that they are gay but most do, eventually.
My husband gave up being discreet about it years ago. I don't care he can look all he wants. I'm secure enough to take it.
I worked with a guy with so many feminine traits that I just assumed he was gay. Didn't care, I just assumed that.
You could have knocked me over with a feather when I met his wife and two daughters. He had been married 30+ years.
Fast forward...he becomes friends with a flaming gay guy (don't get sensitive, you know what I'm talking about) Nice guy to hang out with.
Next thing we know, my friend is leaving his wife and moving in with the flaming guy.
Yup...my friend was gay all along. He asked me why I didn't tell him earlier. I said...and what?? ruin the surprise?
Their both happy so that's what matters.
Well, that's not really all that matters. There's the woman he lied to for all those years of married life.
In high school I had a good friend who everyone assumed was gay. He married, had three children, and after 30 years of marriage, came out of the closet. We weren't surprised that he was gay, we'd always known it, but we did think it was pretty crummy treatment of his wife. Who wants to have lived with a gay guy for 30 years?
Then, the exact same thing happened to a neighbor. Three kids, 28 years together, and he finally tells her that he's gay, and moving to NY for the gay scene. The wife was destroyed, and after 4 years, she still isn't over it. His two sons won't speak to him. In this case, no one would have guessed the guy was gay. But he knew. Always. They always know, but they don't always want to admit it to themselves, or anyone else. It stinks for those who marry them.
I think there's a difference between "soft gentle" men and those that are truly effeminate. Many rugged masculine men have a softer more gentle side. I once dated a guy who had a real effeminate edge - just couldn't get past it and ended it. And yes, he eventually came out of the closet. Glad my gadar was in good working order.
True. They just haven't come out of the closet, yet. I always feel sorry for their wives because so many of these men haven't yet accepted that they are gay but most do, eventually.
You just have met the feminine straight men yet. They are out there, just like there are butch women who are straight.
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Rcm started the psycho thread, not me. I just participated in it and agreed with you.
That's all.
Should I post on that thread?
