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You've left. What your dealing with now is grief...for the man you wanted him to be....and loss....for the relationship you wanted to have w/ him. Get yourself into a strong group of co-dependent folks working on resolving their issues. The reason we put up w/ this crap is because we grew up thinking if they aren't beating the hell out of you, they aren't abusing you. NOT. There are all kinds of abuse. Stay away, get your ife back because you deserve it. Get into counseling, co-dependency group or counseling...........and GROW,GROW,GROW......
Read the book Co-dependent No More by Melody Beattie. If you read it with an open mind and coming from an honest place within yourself, it can change your life. Wishing anyone dealing with an abuser as well as the abuser much success. Not a fun way to live life.. at all.
I dated a guy from age 16 to age 21. One night when I was out with him, a friend of my family was there. He came up and hugged me. What I did noy realize was my BF was following me while I was on my way to the bathroom and saw this friend hug me. He got so ballistic, he smacked me hard across the face in the middle of the club we were in. It was the one and only time he did it. Did not give him the chance to do it again. He proposed, and I said NO
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