He wanted the divorce and now he won't sign

[CESpeed]

Originally Posted by DRXCOR51

Thanks Tanker. But why if he wanted the divorce does he need to feel control over my life? Why wouldn't he want to move on w/his and let me go? It's crazy!

Yes, it's crazy. But that's why he wanted the divorce, so he could keep jerking you around and get real control over your life. He probably expected you to beg to stay with him, at which point he would have presented you with the rules by which you got to keep such a prize man in your life and you were suppose to be soooo grateful that he took you back that you'd agree to anythung he wanted. But you didn't, you cut your losses and ran and he's mad. He's a control freak. Get down on your knees and thank the Lord that you no longer have that person in your life.

[beckycat]

Originally Posted by DRXCOR51

I'm so frustrated. Either my soon to be ex is very lazy, doesn't want to deal with it or confused. He asked for a divorce after 5 years of marriage last November. It's been 1 year, we both have our own places, no kids, our assets have been divided (all of this was done last December). We haven't spoken or seen each other in months and he won't respond to the papers he filed back in February. My atty responded to his and now I have to wait until I can get a court date. I had to plan the wedding now the divorce that I didn't want. It's bad enough he wanted out but now he's making me wait to move on with my life, it's so selfish. It's not like we're in our 20's or 30's, we're both 40.

Also, the last few times I spoke with him (months ago) he was so angry and filled with rage. You would think I was the one who wanted out. Why is HE angry and why won't HE sign the papers???

He probably realized the grass isn't greener on the other side!