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Old 12-23-2008, 03:39 AM
 
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There has to be many married think the same way and wish they can get some on the side without their spouses knowing...
Stay homes moms playing with staying home dads.
Does this exist?
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Old 12-23-2008, 03:54 AM
 
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Last time I checked that was called cheating. If you commit to marriage why look outside when supposedly you'er with the person who completes you.
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Old 12-23-2008, 05:46 AM
 
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There has to be many married think the same way and wish they can get some on the side without their spouses knowing...
Stay homes moms playing with staying home dads.
Does this exist?
Of course it exists. Take our former President for example. It's one thing to look, but another altogether to act on it. Do that, and you are asking for misery that comes in many shapes and forms, immediate, or down the road. There is no free ticket.
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Old 12-23-2008, 05:52 AM
 
Location: USA
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It exists.
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Old 12-23-2008, 05:53 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Of course it exists. Take our former President for example. It's one thing to look, but another altogether to act on it. Do that, and you are asking for misery that comes in many shapes and forms, immediate, or down the road. There is no free ticket.
Bill Clinton. My hero!! Nothing like a good cigar ya know!!!
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Old 12-23-2008, 05:54 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Weird question... We all know that that crosses the line. Why take a vow in the first place, if you can't be faithful? Why do you ask?
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Old 12-23-2008, 06:42 AM
 
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Have you ever seen one of those Birthday cards that has a picture of a hot swimsuit model on the outside with the title "What we are looking for!!" And then on the inside it has a picture of the really fat almost bald woman with the title "What is looking for us!!!"

Well that is about reality. Every time a subject like this come up on here, the women picture this guy just looking for a bang. And the guy pictures himself with Pamela Anderson.

Get a clue here. You looking to bang anything you can? Settle for what is willing? Or are you looking to seriously upgrade from whatever you are currently married to?

Cuz 1) Dream on. 2) It's wrong you know.
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Old 12-23-2008, 06:48 AM
 
Location: Pinellas Park, FL
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There has to be many married think the same way and wish they can get some on the side without their spouses knowing...
Stay homes moms playing with staying home dads.
Does this exist?
Yeah, I’m thinking that if you are "looking" outside your marriage for intimacy then clearly there is something missing. If you are feeling the need to cheat then I think you need to talk to your spouse about this issue. If this were my issue, I would be looking into getting out of this black hole marriage and find someone who could fulfill those needs.
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Old 12-23-2008, 06:56 AM
 
Location: Arizona, The American Southwest
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Is it ok to be married and still seek outside intimacy on the side
I'm not sure if you're serious asking this question, or if it's a joke, but the answer is a definite NO, it's not okay.
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Old 12-23-2008, 07:27 AM
 
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You know, the reality is always far seedier than an erotic daydream.

Case in point? My wife and I went out for a glass of wine before dinner one Saturday night. While we were enjoying a glass at the wine bar, we noticed this party of 40ish and 50ish people in a different part of the bar. We noticed the women were dressed in pretty revealing attire, and the guys dressed like accountants and actuarials on their days off. Basically it looked as if the Assembly Of God was trying to infiltrate Hef's Mansion and took a stab at finding the proper attire.

As it turned out, they were swingers! And, while orgies and swingers are all probably depicted as young, supple, writhing bodies straight out of a soft-core porn film, the reality was a bunch of dowdy middle-aged people trying to look about twenty years younger than they actually were.

As we left the bar, my wife looked at me and said, "I don't know about you, but I wouldn't have done any of those people." My sentiments exactly.
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