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So I've been dating this guy for about a month now (4 weeks). We had sex for the first time last night, our 7th date. He's taken me out to dinner, drinks, coffee, etc. so it's not like we've just been hanging out at his place; we've done actual dates. He just texted me this afternoon and wants to know when he can see me again. I definitely enjoyed the sex but I also have a genuine interest in continuing to get to know him better as a potential boyfriend. I guess I'm just wondering...
How do I know if, after I've now had sex with him, sex is all he's going to want, or if he also enjoys my company and thinks of me as a potential relationship? Does he want to hang out with me now only for the sex? Does he also want to continue to get to know me better as a person? Please advise!
Well, just so long as you're not having THE TALK with him, as in the "Where is this going?" talk. Instead, say, "Hey, last night was pretty special. I want to make sure it's that way to you, too."
How do I know if, after I've now had sex with him, sex is all he's going to want, or if he also enjoys my company and thinks of me as a potential relationship? Does he want to hang out with me now only for the sex? Does he also want to continue to get to know me better as a person? Please advise!
I would say just being affectionate with him. My wife does it to me and I always fall for it. When she's being overly affectionate I just think of one thing when she's only thinking of just cuddling and such.
So I've been dating this guy for about a month now (4 weeks). We had sex for the first time last night, our 7th date. He's taken me out to dinner, drinks, coffee, etc. so it's not like we've just been hanging out at his place; we've done actual dates. He just texted me this afternoon and wants to know when he can see me again. I definitely enjoyed the sex but I also have a genuine interest in continuing to get to know him better as a potential boyfriend. I guess I'm just wondering...
How do I know if, after I've now had sex with him, sex is all he's going to want, or if he also enjoys my company and thinks of me as a potential relationship? Does he want to hang out with me now only for the sex? Does he also want to continue to get to know me better as a person? Please advise!
You mean to tell us you didn't discuss this stuff with him BEFORE you had sex with him???
Ha, I can't help it, I'm a law student, it's in my nature to over think things sometimes. Well I definitely don't want to have "the conversation" b/c I think that's still too soon - so if he stops taking me places and spending money then can I assume it's just about sex???
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