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Old 12-26-2008, 03:30 PM
 
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All you people who have truly wonderful relationships with your SO.. Please help. How do you help a person -man or woman- who is jaded against the opposite gender?

How do you help them? What would be your best advice? Are they doomed to suffer? Are they just on their own? trapped? If a man is jaded against women what would your advice be? If a woman is jaded against men what would your advice be?
I have a great SO and a calm/drama-free relationship.

As far as men who are "jaded" towards women??? I RUN, do not walk, do not look back, away as far as possible. Life is short, and there are plenty of wonderful, un-bitter men out there. So why should I waste my time?

I also refuse to befriend women who hate men and women who hate women. Ugh. Who needs it???

 
Old 12-26-2008, 04:23 PM
 
Location: southern california
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probably the hard part about threads like this is eager posters saying
hey i dont have a problem. im doing great. jaded huh? wow. what a loser.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 04:28 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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probably the hard part about threads like this is so many eager posters saying
hey i dont have a problem. im doing great. i never had relationship issues. i think everybody is wonderful, i never got burned because i am such a great guy/gal i just dont see what the problem is.
Interesting. I for one have shared mistakes and regrets whereas I don't recall you ever doing so... and yet you posted this.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 04:54 PM
 
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Interesting. I for one have shared mistakes and regrets whereas I don't recall you ever doing so... and yet you posted this.
some post wounds
others enjoy looking
where the dead and wounded lie
vultures gather
(can i have my jade now?)
 
Old 12-26-2008, 05:23 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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some post wounds
others enjoy looking
where the dead and wounded lie
vultures gather
(can i have my jade now?)
I don't think so. You've never taken any responsibility for whatever has happened in your personal life, so you really should be the last one to talk about others. Posting the same statistics ad nauseam how everything is women's fault hardly qualifies.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 05:27 PM
 
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probably the hard part about threads like this is eager posters saying
hey i dont have a problem. im doing great. jaded huh? wow. what a loser.
The OP asked specifically:

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All you people who have truly wonderful relationships with your SO.. Please help
If people want to wallow, I generally leave them to be.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 05:35 PM
 
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If people want to wallow, I generally leave them to be.
perhaps posts that say how they have that perfect relationship would be helpful.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 05:40 PM
 
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I don't think so. You've never taken any responsibility for whatever has happened in your personal life, so you really should be the last one to talk about others. Posting the same statistics ad nauseam how everything is women's fault hardly qualifies.
dear friend
what do you know of my personal life?
statistics are good and teach us the obvious.
they have no agenda.
always happy to provide links for whatever i have said on CDF.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 05:42 PM
 
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perhaps posts that say how they have that perfect relationship would be helpful.

I sought out some one who was calm and logical, generally happy with his life and, most importantly for me, drama-free.

And no it's not ~perfect~ all the time, every second of the day. Humans are imperfect critters, that's the beauty. If you want perfection, get a cat

Is that really so hard?
I'm not being mean nor snarky, just genuinely curious.
 
Old 12-26-2008, 05:45 PM
 
Location: southern california
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I sought out some one who was calm and logical, generally happy with his life and, most importantly for me, drama-free.

And no it's not ~perfect~ all the time, every second of the day. Humans are imperfect critters, that's the beauty. If you want perfection, get a cat

Is that really so hard?
I'm not being mean nor snarky, just genuinely curious.
a cat. now i like that and i know some really nice ones.
met a new one today a siamese. i like em.
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