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View Poll Results: Thoughts on Swinging
Man - I would like to try it 45 14.24%
Man - I have no desire to try it 90 28.48%
Man - I have tried it, never again 9 2.85%
Man - Im a Swinger!!!! 16 5.06%
Man - Other 13 4.11%
Woman - I would like to try it 17 5.38%
Woman - I have no desire to try it 100 31.65%
Woman - I have tried it, never again 10 3.16%
Woman - Im a Swinger!!!! 6 1.90%
Woman - Other 10 3.16%
Voters: 316. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-16-2009, 08:29 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Well, I can honestly say that when my ex would tell me we were gonna meet some friends of his for dinner and drinks ... oh, and by the way I needed to wear something really sexy with cleavage - all of these people were skanky, older and just plain nasty. I was young and beautiful with a killer bod. There was no way in HELL I was ever gonna "do" any of those people - even if a million bucks were at stake! :smack:

If I were to choose to sleep around, by golly, they're gonna be people I choose and not with some depraved wife trying to get in on the action.
LOL! That's the thing Twinkle, it's always the one spouse is hot and the other spouse is NOT! And I believe you are still beautiful with a killer bod aren't you?

I do have friends that are swingers, and there is only one couple that both of them are desirable. I've seen some of the pics from their club outings and let me tell you there is always one ugly spouse and usually that is the person who is initiating the swinging. And I don't mean to disrespect the "ugly" spouse, but hey, if I'm going to be a swinger and have meaningless, loveless sex with someone, they better be a 10.
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Old 01-16-2009, 08:38 PM
 
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LOL! That's the thing Twinkle, it's always the one spouse is hot and the other spouse is NOT!
From your personal observations, is the spouse who is not hot usually the wife or the husband ?
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Old 01-16-2009, 09:15 PM
 
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Everytime I have seen or heard of couples swinging it has always ended badly in one form or another.
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Old 01-16-2009, 09:28 PM
 
Location: Rockport Texas from El Paso
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Huckleberry I challenge you to present some evidence to back up your claim of immeasurable damage. Give us any evidence of damage! I have done 25 years of divorces and its not these people i see in court - in fact you should see the damage that non swingers do to each other!

Once again - you seem to like slamming people who are not like you but BACK UP YOUR STATEMENTS!
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Old 01-16-2009, 09:52 PM
 
Location: Houston, Texas
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the damage caused to the individuals that practice this behavior is immeasurable.
deep and serious issues of trust remain and can only be removed with years of treatment.
usually a trusted mate convinces the other to do it. rarely is it a mutual wish.
it takes someone that we love to betray us to tell us something is good for us that is so damaging. the sky is cryin.
Wow you have to get out more. Maybe even stay out of those brainwashing churches.

You should never judge others. Isn't that what those phony churches preach?

Nothing you said is true. Nothing. I know. Been there done that.
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Old 01-16-2009, 09:53 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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From your personal observations, is the spouse who is not hot usually the wife or the husband ?
Just from personal observations only, the person who is usually not hot is the husband. But there are a few where the husband was hot.
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Old 01-16-2009, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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I can't wait for cpg to chime in on this thread
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Old 01-16-2009, 09:57 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Wow you have to get out more. Maybe even stay out of those brainwashing churches.

You should never judge others. Isn't that what those phony churches preach?

Nothing you said is true. Nothing. I know. Been there done that.
Where did he mention anything about churches?
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Old 01-16-2009, 09:58 PM
 
Location: Houston, Texas
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Huckleberry I challenge you to present some evidence to back up your claim of immeasurable damage. Give us any evidence of damage! I have done 25 years of divorces and its not these people i see in court - in fact you should see the damage that non swingers do to each other!

Once again - you seem to like slamming people who are not like you but BACK UP YOUR STATEMENTS!
Hey !!! 10,000 REPs to you my friend. I just answered him too but you just said it much more kind.

How right you are............
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Old 01-16-2009, 10:03 PM
 
Location: Incognito
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The only thing I swing is a baseball bat when I play baseball.
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