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My ex was into this kind of thing. she talked about it a lot but we never did any thing swingy together. She just went off on her own and it destroyed our relationship in the end. I had a bit of an issue with her hooking up behind my back. If this is how a married couple wants to play I reckon thats fine but BOTH parties need to be on the same page in the same book. The old "it's just sex" thing only flies so far IMHO. I was a while getting over what her "playing" did to me and I still don't look at things the way I used to. To me it's just cheating at the end of the day but if your hearts hard enough to handle it and thats what ya like play away.
So among swinger couples the husband usually looks like John Goodman and the wife looks like Jennifer Connelly ?
Now now lets not pick on looks. Of course looks are important but a person who is sweet, kind, giving, gentle and always stands by their other half will far far far outweigh what society says is perfect beauty.
More specific as a man I had girlfriends who were among the most beautiful but all, not some, not a few, all of them were snobs. I want to say I hate perfect 10 women but I wont. As a rule pretty women are snobby b****s.
Just remember this:
You can still be some bodies dream boat. Even if the anchor fell over board and the cargo shifted.
There are even guys out there who love women with more rolls then Mario's Bakery. Everyone is beautiful to some one.
Ever been to a nude beach? You find every race, color, size, age, looks, everything goes. I can promise you those people are happier in their lives then the average jealous spouse always looking out to catch their other half cheating. Cheating? What is that anyway. No such thing unless you have a signed Deed of ownership with a person. And dont say a marraige license.
Know people who do it. They love it. I went to a private club with an ex years ago. We had never been and got there early. They gave us a tour and we left not knowing it was bring your own liquor. We never did pursue it again though.
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