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I am happy to know that my three potential women to choose from do not have this kind of a habit. After a one and a half year, on and off flirtation with my girls from Orange County, I can clearly say that next to fetishes, swearing was the reason I left them. Every fourth word was f*** or s***. This is why I hate girls from southern California. It's not just their "I'm so wild and smart" attitude. It's the swearing. I will only swear if someone makes me really angry. Other than that, I will use big words that I better know the meaning of.
In Los Angeles it can be difficult to find women who act feminine, refined or sophisticated. If you search real hard, you can find them. But they are less common there than elsewhere.
Which is too bad, because I really like the climate of LA.
Hi and thank you for such a quick response. Los Angeles certainly has its share of jerks. I do realize that there people that swear uncontrollably but are still beautiful and smart. As irate as it is, it's true. I love the climate just like everyone else but let's face it, I'll never get another LA girl again. Never. It's just not going to happen.
True, if I look really hard, I can find someone better. I want one woman, not six or seven. One that cure loneliness, isn't really kinky and strange, doesn't swear, and isn't both "horny and brainy" like a lot of porn models. Heck, porn will do anything to appeal to anyone. That's not good. Porn is making a lot of money. That could have gone toward better causes.
If you are still living in LA, I wouldn't swear off women in Los Angeles. It will make your dating pool too small. But if you live outside the region, then by all means blow off women from LA.
I don't know if you have ever worked with the general public. In college I had a job where I had a lot of customer contact. What I learned is that I really didn't like most people that I met. That made me rethink my impression of humanity. For a while I feared I was becoming some sort of crank and maybe anti-social. But that wasn't true either. I really liked my friends a lot. In that sense I am highly social. But I am selective. I want to be around others who have a high level of social grace. The people I like, I like a lot. But there are a lot of people I don't like being around at all. They are too negative, too uncouth and just generally rude. I see nothing wrong with demanding more from and for your friends. You can't give equally of yourself to everyone. So save your efforts for people worth that effort.
I agree that there are some really awful people in LA, including a lot of women who were screwed up by growing up in LA. But some isn't all women. When you totally eliminate all women from that category, especially if you live in LA, I think you are making a mistake. Its like panning for gold. While some places are better than others for finding gold, if you never stick your pan in the water, you won't find anything.
If you are still living in LA, I wouldn't swear off women in Los Angeles. It will make your dating pool too small. But if you live outside the region, then by all means blow off women from LA.
I don't know if you have ever worked with the general public. In college I had a job where I had a lot of customer contact. What I learned is that I really didn't like most people that I met. That made me rethink my impression of humanity. For a while I feared I was becoming some sort of crank and maybe anti-social. But that wasn't true either. I really liked my friends a lot. In that sense I am highly social. But I am selective. I want to be around others who have a high level of social grace. The people I like, I like a lot. But there are a lot of people I don't like being around at all. They are too negative, too uncouth and just generally rude. I see nothing wrong with demanding more from and for your friends. You can't give equally of yourself to everyone. So save your efforts for people worth that effort.
I agree that there are some really awful people in LA, including a lot of women who were screwed up by growing up in LA. But some isn't all women. When you totally eliminate all women from that category, especially if you live in LA, I think you are making a mistake. Its like panning for gold. While some places are better than others for finding gold, if you never stick your pan in the water, you won't find anything.
Thank God I don't live in LA or OC. I don't care how small the dating pool is, I don't like groups of girls and I don't like being six, disgusting athletic types. It's something straight out of a porn site. They were beautiful, smart, and loved sex with fetishes after hard workouts. I'll save everything I have for better girls. I like the gold metaphor. However, LA and OC are terrible places for women. Why spend each moment talking how rough life is and then get solace from talking about what arouses me sexually? Or combine with talk about real music, academic things, and sex?
I love women that cuss like a sailor. The dirtier the better as far as I'm concerned.
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but > I don`t use the big, nasty words unless I`m in the bedroom, or very, very mad!!
