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I don't think it's cheating at all and a matter of fact i think it's very natural and even downright sexy to see a guy do this. As for women if it were cheating then I have cheated my whole life. Id rather see a guy go masturbate if the urge hit him then to see him go cheat.
I wouldn't consider it cheating unless he did it while thinking of an ex-GF/porn star/coworker, etc. then it'd be cheating in his mind, like I wasn't satisfying him so he has to fantasize about other women. That'd be upsetting.
Men usually need some sort of "motivation," whether it's a picture, or video, etc. It still isn't cheating.
If you're having sex w/your SO/spouse/whatever, and some gorgeous celeb comes to mind while you're in the midst, are you cheating? No! Fantasy is fantasy.
What if it did it with nude pics of your SISTER that he found when you were house-sitting for her??
This is reason #867 why my ex is my EX-husband.
Oh man, that is wrong. It's even more weird is that your sister had NUDE PICTURES of herself just... lying around for people to see. I didn't realize people actually took nude pictures of themselves unless it's been taken professionally in which case it's considered art. Was it taken professionally?
Men usually need some sort of "motivation," whether it's a picture, or video, etc. It still isn't cheating.
If you're having sex w/your SO/spouse/whatever, and some gorgeous celeb comes to mind while you're in the midst, are you cheating? No! Fantasy is fantasy.
That's what many women and men do in long term relationships. They don't want to cheat so they just envision themselves getting it on with a crush they met somewhere, at work or school or something.
if they're looking at porn or thinking of someone other than you while they're doing it, then yes i think it's emotionally cheating.
Women usually don't need "visual" stimulation to masturbate, but men do. That's a double standard to say that it's okay for women, but not men. I'm not saying that is what you're saying, but most men need the visual, so to say that if they are looking at porn or thinking of someone other than you is cheating, then that's where there's a double standard.
Again, I maintain that cheating is when a third (or fourth, or fifth) person is involved. Certainly not when you're alone.
Another dimension of the initial question is, if you and your partner agree to a threesome, is that cheating? I've known a few swingers in my day and they would tell you they were faithful to their spouses.
Another dimension of the initial question is, if you and your partner agree to a threesome, is that cheating? I've known a few swingers in my day and they would tell you they were faithful to their spouses.
They can call it whatever they want, but I call it cheating, for both of them.
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