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I'm curious.....Lets say you meet a nice woman and begin dating her. All is going well until some random night, perhaps after a few drinks, you both start talking about your pasts. So you ask her, having had sex with her, say, a dozen times or so at this point, where you rank....She is brutally honest and tells you about a few men who were far superior in bed. She may even go into detail why. Can you handle this? Honestly can you? And what might your reaction be? Let her go? Tell her about someone better you've had?
I think most of us, have always been told, "you're the best I've ever had" when we are right smack in the middle of said relationship, but we all know this is statistically impossible.
The post below got me thinking about this.
I've honestly only had this happen once. I've always been told, I was the best, but I know the above probably applies to some extent. I did not handle it well, I'll admit.
And who cares, anyway? Isn't love, caring, devotion, and all that good stuff more important than comparing your weenie with some strangers'? Or your action with some guys you'll never know? Wouldn't you be happy just knowing she's super into you?
It's never occurred to me to even think about whether there was a "best". As long as they have lots of energy and make the effort to get me off and they enjoy the process, I'm happy. They're all pretty much the same.
No woman is going to say that to you unless they lack respect for you or are about to break up with you.
I would tend to agree, most women would not say this directly to the man they are currently with, but it does happen. Especially in the environment I described where she might believes no harm would come of it. But women have these conversations all the time with their girlfriends and current boyfriends. I remember one guy I was sort of friends with, who was always yelling how great he was in bed. I believed him and so did everyone else. That until I slept with two of his exes and they told me how awkward, clumsy and unskilled he really was.
And who cares, anyway? Isn't love, caring, devotion, and all that good stuff more important than comparing your weenie with some strangers'? Or your action with some guys you'll never know? Wouldn't you be happy just knowing she's super into you?
You women talk about it all the time. So if it's a "who cares" kinda thing, then why talk about it? Everyone's equal, love conquers all? Come on kumbaya!
You women talk about it all the time. So if it's a "who cares" kinda thing, then why talk about it? Everyone's equal, love conquers all? Come on kumbaya!
Whoa, whoa! Who, "you women"? I've never talked about it with anyone. Nor have my gf's. That would fall into the TMI Department. We don't want to know those details about each other.
It's all subjective because it's based on what she says. Even if you were the best, she might not want to admit it.
If she tells you that you were the best, she could be lying to you.
Either way, I'd eventually break up with her for lying to me.
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