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This is not something I ever worried about. When I was just "starting out" I had partners who were more experienced than I was. They knew what they were getting and that I would take some "training." But that also meant they could shape me into the kind of partner they wanted.
Over the years I grew confident enough in myself to not care about others in my partners' pasts. After over 8 years of marriage and three kids, I'm definitely not worried about this with my wife.
It never dawned on me to ask such a question to a woman Ive been sleeping with. Even if she did tell me (for some reason) I wasn't her best, I could care less.
This is not something I ever worried about. When I was just "starting out" I had partners who were more experienced than I was. They knew what they were getting and that I would take some "training." But that also meant they could shape me into the kind of partner they wanted.
Over the years I grew confident enough in myself to not care about others in my partners' pasts. After over 8 years of marriage and three kids, I'm definitely not worried about this with my wife.
Exactly. This is the kind of thing a teenage boy might be concerned about, not grown men.
Best sex is typically a result of what happens between two ears and not downtown so if anyone is looking for best one the answers are going to be as varied as there are opinions
The question was not hypothetical in the sense of, "would you ask, or care to ask, or have a reason to ask" and this far all the responses have been answering that.
The question was, in short, if you KNEW, she had much better partners in her past, as a man, WOULD IT BOTHER YOU?
Talk about insecure, not one person has answered that. I believe for several reasons....you really don't care if you totally please your partner or not, it's about you, two, you are in denial.
It's really a simple question that does not warrant an outside the box analytical response. You're a man, you find out, by any means, you are not her best, does it bother you? Nothing to do with asking, or feeling insecure.
If a woman has had much better partners than you, you have a serious problem. Most people aren't that different from each other in that dept. It's more about attitude and willingness to please.
If a woman has had much better partners than you, you have a serious problem.
Well I don't know but women tell me sh*t for whatever reason. I've more then once been the recipient of a cheating wife in my days and they have no issues confiding in me why they cheat. Everything from my husband is selfish, the minute man, the three incher and so on. I've heard it all.
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