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Originally Posted by gear down
she is in moldova, which is an ex soviet satellite country with a lot of difficulties. She cannot leave the country unless married, and her economical conditions are not good.
I am sure we will never have any sort of problems....
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well those are some pretty big red flags right there
call an attorney who has experience with your type of questions (immigration, marriage, protecting assets, whatever) so you have more information from people who know the law, who know the pitfalls, who have more experience than anyone on this forum does.
Talk to an attorney BEFORE you jeopardize your assets.
Also get online and read stories of men who "fell in love with women from other countries" and lo and behold what happened after the wedding when they got out of their countries. It's a real eye opener. Read some real-life stories so you go in with your eyes open.
I don't know you or your lady friend, and I'm not saying she has ulterior motives, or that your relationship isn't a lovely one, but PLEASE read other people's stories who felt, thought, did EXACTLY what you are doing now.
i would say you have a right to be concerned. best wishes