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Old 02-10-2009, 04:01 PM
 
Location: sweden
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Experiencing problems with my laptop deleting my posts,thanks for your replies.

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Old 02-10-2009, 04:03 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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How old are you, your wife and this guy (that just slept with the 14 and 15 year old girls)?
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Old 02-10-2009, 04:11 PM
 
Location: sweden
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The guy is 25,i'm 24 and my wife is 22
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Old 02-10-2009, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Your wife needs to tell her girlfriend to back off and respect the fact that she's married and unless her guy friend is like 14 to 17 years old, she needs to tell him to stay away from little girls and mark her off his list while he's at it. She shouldn't be leaving you in the position that makes you feel like you're being overly possessive, controlling or jealous by taking it upon yourself. They're her friends, it's her responsibility. I hope she does the right thing.

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Old 02-10-2009, 04:31 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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You can't run interference for your wife with this guy. It's up to her to handle the situation. If she's smart, she will tell both this guy and her female friend to cut the crap and stop trying to start drama. And if your wife isn't totally disgusted by this guy's behaviour with those underage girls, then she's an idiot. Anyway, instead of worrying about this guy, just focus on having quality romantic fun times with your wife. Have at least one special night every week together. Don't you even discuss this guy's antics towards your wife. Just ignore it.

I hope that your wife isn't the one bringing this stuff up in an effort to make you jealous.
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Old 02-10-2009, 04:34 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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You can't run interference for your wife with this guy. It's up to her to handle the situation. If she's smart, she will tell both this guy and her female friend to cut the crap and stop trying to start drama. And if your wife isn't totally disgusted by this guy's behaviour with those underage girls, then she's an idiot. Anyway, instead of worrying about this guy, just focus on having quality romantic fun times with your wife. Have at least one special night every week together. Don't you even discuss this guy's antics towards your wife. Just ignore it.

I hope that your wife isn't the one bringing this stuff up in an effort to make you jealous.
No kidding! I know a lot of times younger women say they don't like the jealousy and such--and they probably don't--but once it's gone they often think it's a sign he's not as attracted to her anymore and sometimes try to stir the pot to see what's going on. It's a maturity issue if that's the case.
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Old 02-10-2009, 04:42 PM
miu
 
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No kidding! I know a lot of times younger women say they don't like the jealousy and such--and they probably don't--but once it's gone they often think it's a sign he's not as attracted to her anymore and sometimes try to stir the pot to see what's going on. It's a maturity issue if that's the case.
And the O.P.'s wife is only 22 years old. While she loves her husband, she might be missing the attention she used to get when she was single. Also, if there's lots of singles drama within her circle of friends, she might be feeling left out. I'm guessing that this female friend of hers that's trying to hook her up with the 25 year old creep, is single. It's time for the O.P. and his wife to start making friends with other young married couples.
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Old 02-10-2009, 04:44 PM
 
Location: Grosse Ile Michigan
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Call Dr. Laura
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Old 02-10-2009, 04:44 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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You can't run interference for your wife with this guy. It's up to her to handle the situation. If she's smart, she will tell both this guy and her female friend to cut the crap and stop trying to start drama. And if your wife isn't totally disgusted by this guy's behaviour with those underage girls, then she's an idiot. Anyway, instead of worrying about this guy, just focus on having quality romantic fun times with your wife. Have at least one special night every week together. Don't you even discuss this guy's antics towards your wife. Just ignore it.

I hope that your wife isn't the one bringing this stuff up in an effort to make you jealous.
Yep. This sounds good! Good luck!
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Old 02-10-2009, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Call Dr. Laura
Gag! The only reason I'd call that [fill in the blank] is to hang up on her.
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