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hi there
can someone help me please-im just curious at the moment.
Ok well i first begun speaking to this girl online in July but we lost contact for a few months until she got back in contact with me two weeks ago. I do not really know her that well but she seems like a really nice girl. For some reason i really want to meet her in person, the problem is that she lives in Australia and i live in London. I dont think that I should be feeling this way about this person so im trying to be real about the situation and see it for what it really is but i seem to think about her much more than i should. Im at a point where I have been thinking about getting another job so that i can pay for her to visit me.
Just in case i still feel like i want to met her in person, what are some of the difficulties that could be faced with meeting someone online from another country?
what is the right way to arrange meeting someone online, because i feel very clueless about it?
hi there
can someone help me please-im just curious at the moment.
Ok well i first begun speaking to this girl online in July but we lost contact for a few months until she got back in contact with me two weeks ago. I do not really know her that well but she seems like a really nice girl. For some reason i really want to meet her in person, the problem is that she lives in Australia and i live in London. I dont think that I should be feeling this way about this person so im trying to be real about the situation and see it for what it really is but i seem to think about her much more than i should. Im at a point where I have been thinking about getting another job so that i can pay for her to visit me.
Just in case i still feel like i want to met her in person, what are some of the difficulties that could be faced with meeting someone online from another country?
what is the right way to arrange meeting someone online, because i feel very clueless about it?
Bro!?
Save your money man. Seriously.
I have read your thoughts on here before. You seem like a nice guy that is running around with your heart on your shoulders.
You need to meet someone face to face and spend every minute you can with her in person. There is no better advice I can give than that.
She lives there and you live here. Leave it alone. Unless she is willing to come live in your city so you guys can get to know one another, I would never recommend a long distance relationship.
I dated my wife on the phone. She was only 1 hour away from me. We talked for hours on the phone. I thought I knew her inside and out. I didn't. You can't see the body language.
I wouldn't do any pursuing of this relationship if I were you. Find some sites that have only local girls.
Someone I know had been conversing via email with a girl from Ukraine. He had to give that up because it was costing him too much money to send and read the emails (they go through a translation service). He was never going to have the money to go to Ukraine to meet her and was not going to spend the money on a ticket to fly her here to the U.S. - not that he could afford to do that either - and how do you trust that someone's not taking you for a ride if you do send a ticketor money.
well i just spoke to her online almost 20 minutes ago, and i said to her that i wanted things to feel a bit more real so i asked her if we could speak on the phone and she said something like ''i dont have a phone because i am mad at the phone company so there fore i wont pay my bill and they turned my phone off''.....which to me didnt sound very believable. So now im starting to think that either she isnt interested in me or she is not who she says that she is.
well i just spoke to her online almost 20 minutes ago, and i said to her that i wanted things to feel a bit more real so i asked her if we could speak on the phone and she said something like ''i dont have a phone because i am mad at the phone company so there fore i wont pay my bill and they turned my phone off''.....which to me didnt sound very believable. So now im starting to think that either she isnt interested in me or she is not who she says that she is.
She's probably really a ...... MAN!!!
Come on, in all honesty - who doesn't have a phone? I can understand not having a house phone (land line), but everybody and their infant octuplets has a cell phone!
Come on, in all honesty - who doesn't have a phone? I can understand not having a house phone (land line), but everybody and their infant octuplets has a cell phone!
Well I met my husband online and we were from different countries so it can work. But you're right, that phone excuse sounds shady.
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