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Old 03-02-2009, 01:51 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Book, you are SO right. My exhusband developed a severe case of diarhea from the stress of carrying on with another woman, it lasted so long he lost weight from it. I knew at that point something was wrong but had not figured out what yet. When I would talk to him, he could not look me in the face. Thats when I knew I had to gain access to his email accounts.
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Old 03-02-2009, 01:58 PM
 
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If somebody doesn't look at you in your face does that mean they are up to something sneaky?? Only curious.


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Book, you are SO right. My exhusband developed a severe case of diarhea from the stress of carrying on with another woman, it lasted so long he lost weight from it. I knew at that point something was wrong but had not figured out what yet. When I would talk to him, he could not look me in the face. Thats when I knew I had to gain access to his email accounts.
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Old 03-02-2009, 03:36 PM
 
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My SO cannot lie to save his life, so if/when he cheats, I'll know.
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Old 03-02-2009, 03:39 PM
 
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My husband can't even lie when I ask him where he went shopping at Christmas time...he'll say "Honey, please don't ask!"
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Old 03-02-2009, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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Will someone tell you why a woman would want to have an affair with a married man in the first place? He has a serious family obligations which leaves little for the woman on the side.
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Old 03-02-2009, 04:56 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Will someone tell you why a woman would want to have an affair with a married man in the first place? He has a serious family obligations which leaves little for the woman on the side.
In my ex's case, she had affairs before. Bored with her home life, looking for a fantasy life. I read the emails they exchanged and it was like they were both smokin weed the entire time, the ravings were so beyond reality.
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Old 03-03-2009, 01:36 AM
 
Location: North London
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Will someone tell you why a woman would want to have an affair with a married man in the first place? He has a serious family obligations which leaves little for the woman on the side.
Then you are very naive. I have dated married men for a while now and the longest lasted 4 years and she never knew or chose not to. We spent some weekends together, I went on business trips with him domestically and international, met at lunchtime, evenings and even christmas evening one year.
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Old 03-03-2009, 01:39 AM
 
Location: North London
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My husband can't even lie when I ask him where he went shopping at Christmas time...he'll say "Honey, please don't ask!"
Keep telling yourself that. Men aren't stupid, they may get caught eventually but their wives can be so naive.
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Old 03-03-2009, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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If somebody doesn't look at you in your face does that mean they are up to something sneaky?? Only curious.
It is usually considered a sign of deception. Most people have "tells" ( like in poker) when they lie, you only have to get to know them well enough.
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Old 03-03-2009, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Then you are very naive. I have dated married men for a while now and the longest lasted 4 years and she never knew or chose not to. We spent some weekends together, I went on business trips with him domestically and international, met at lunchtime, evenings and even christmas evening one year.
Why?

Did it make you feel good that he used you for sex but always went home to his wife, that his wife was the kind of woman he would introduce to his family and you were not??

I hope you find a way to think better of yourself.
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