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Hi everyone, so I'm apparently on a posting roll
OK, so apparently the story is this guy I was seeing last year who really hurt my feelings & who was supposed to graduate in December is still haunting our college campus w/ his presence. I have personally run into him a few times & finally spoke w/ him on one occasion, found out he is going to medical school next fall out of state & I told him congratulations. We went our separate ways after being civil to one another, I told my closest friend about it & she went ballistic, saying that she would have "cussed him out" "why did I talk to that ass?" , etc. etc.
A few of my girlfriends have seen him here & they constantly are reporting seeing him to me. It really bothers me, even though they say that everytime they see him, he averts his eyes, runs the other way or "acts scared" of them, esp. my closest friend. She said it's because he knows that she won't take any of his "sh*t like I did" (her words, not mine). But my friends also try to act bold around guys I'm with, like they "will beat him up" if he "tried" anything.
I also never happen to be w/ him whenever they run into him at the library or student center. Why are they telling me this? I'm already over him & I never talk about the guys that did my closest friend wrong. Sorry this is so long-winded but should I give them the benefit of the doubt or is there an underlying message that they/my closest friend is trying to convey?
Ok...have you ever watched "Gossip Girl"?? 90210? From what little bit I have seen of both shows, you sound like you are in the middle of both! Girls like to talk, girls like drama and fortunate for you, you seem mature enough to speak civily to your ex and carry on with your life.
Wanna have some fun with your drama oriented friends? Get a T-shirt...a plain one of any color and some iron on letters. Iron the letters on to read...."Been there, done HIM, got the T-Shirt". Maybe they will stop with the childish gossiping..LOL
Ok...have you ever watched "Gossip Girl"?? 90210? From what little bit I have seen of both shows, you sound like you are in the middle of both! Girls like to talk, girls like drama and fortunate for you, you seem mature enough to speak civily to your ex and carry on with your life.
Wanna have some fun with your drama oriented friends? Get a T-shirt...a plain one of any color and some iron on letters. Iron the letters on to read...."Been there, done HIM, got the T-Shirt". Maybe they will stop with the childish gossiping..LOL
I agree!!
For every time they mention him tell them that you don't care!! They will get the point eventually.
OK, so apparently the story is this guy I was seeing last year who really hurt my feelings & who was supposed to graduate in December is still haunting our college campus w/ his presence. I have personally run into him a few times & finally spoke w/ him on one occasion, found out he is going to medical school next fall out of state & I told him congratulations. We went our separate ways after being civil to one another, I told my closest friend about it & she went ballistic, saying that she would have "cussed him out" "why did I talk to that ass?" , etc. etc.
A few of my girlfriends have seen him here & they constantly are reporting seeing him to me. It really bothers me, even though they say that everytime they see him, he averts his eyes, runs the other way or "acts scared" of them, esp. my closest friend. She said it's because he knows that she won't take any of his "sh*t like I did" (her words, not mine). But my friends also try to act bold around guys I'm with, like they "will beat him up" if he "tried" anything.
I also never happen to be w/ him whenever they run into him at the library or student center. Why are they telling me this? I'm already over him & I never talk about the guys that did my closest friend wrong. Sorry this is so long-winded but should I give them the benefit of the doubt or is there an underlying message that they/my closest friend is trying to convey?
Absolutely, what is the deal with women scapegoating a guy or a dude? It seems to be a trend in our society. Then when you confront them they deny everything.
Absolutely, what is the deal with women scapegoating a guy or a dude? It seems to be a trend in our society. Then when you confront them they deny everything.
"How am I scapegoating you?"
"How is that trend in our society?"
Yeah, I have been with a woman like that for too long my friend. As soon as you call them out on something they do those questions as if it's not true or they want to know what you know.
They are all crazy!!!
Women are like pretty flowers in a field. They are beautiful and smell great. They add to the scenery and it is breath taking...
NEVER! I mean, NEVER pick one and take them home with you!! EVER!!! Leave them be and enjoy them from a distance!!
Ya man I'm asexual and never date chicks but ya man they do that all the time even to an innocent guy like me that doesn't want to be associated with them, they always seem to be grinding an ax on men for some reasons, then they wonder why men and women have poor dysfunctional relationships.
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Originally Posted by funymann
"How am I scapegoating you?"
"How is is that trend in our society?"
Yeah, I have been with a woman like that for too long my friend. As soon as you call them out on something they do those questions as if it's not true or they want to know what you know.
They are all crazy!!!
Women are like pretty flowers in a field. They are beautiful and smell great. They add to the scenery and it is breath taking...
NEVER! I mean, NEVER pick one and take them home with you!! EVER!!! Leave them be and enjoy them from a distance!!
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Why does she keep bringing him up?
