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Ugh, went for about an hour and had a good time...had a few drinks, good food but was very cold in a strapless gown...forgot my pashmina. My friend did not come...she was in WWIII with her almost ex husband. I am still waiting for her so we can get painting
Well at least now you get to hang out with your real friends!
WOW, I'm kind of shocked that so many think of a condom only as a mood killer.
Have any of you met someone in the later stanges of AIDS?? Now there's a mood killer. I met a man who was covered with the cancerous lesions and fighting pneumonia associated with the disease.
That of course is the worse case scenario, how about all the STDs that men can carry and not know it and then pass on to their lover. I assume you all know what PID (pelvic inflammatory disease) is?? It can render a woman unable to have children and she never know she has it, all because condoms are a mood killer.
What about getting pregnant unexpectedly, bringing a life into this world you didn't want with someone you may or may not want to be attached to for the rest of your life.
For me personally, I have a child to raise, I plan on being here as long as posible. If I was with a man who was pushy about NOT using condoms, he wouldn't be around for long.
WOW, I'm kind of shocked that so many think of a condom only as a mood killer.
Have any of you met someone in the later stanges of AIDS?? Now there's a mood killer. I met a man who was covered with the cancerous lesions and fighting pneumonia associated with the disease.
That of course is the worse case scenario, how about all the STDs that men can carry and not know it and then pass on to their lover. I assume you all know what PID (pelvic inflammatory disease) is?? It can render a woman unable to have children and she never know she has it, all because condoms are a mood killer.
What about getting pregnant unexpectedly, bringing a life into this world you didn't want with someone you may or may not want to be attached to for the rest of your life.
For me personally, I have a child to raise, I plan on being here as long as posible. If I was with a man who was pushy about NOT using condoms, he wouldn't be around for long.
That's for the obsessed (I'm definitely FOR birth control, though) or those attracted to scum. And AIDS is for gay men to worry about.
WOW, I'm kind of shocked that so many think of a condom only as a mood killer.
Have any of you met someone in the later stanges of AIDS?? Now there's a mood killer. I met a man who was covered with the cancerous lesions and fighting pneumonia associated with the disease.
That of course is the worse case scenario, how about all the STDs that men can carry and not know it and then pass on to their lover. I assume you all know what PID (pelvic inflammatory disease) is?? It can render a woman unable to have children and she never know she has it, all because condoms are a mood killer.
What about getting pregnant unexpectedly, bringing a life into this world you didn't want with someone you may or may not want to be attached to for the rest of your life.
For me personally, I have a child to raise, I plan on being here as long as posible. If I was with a man who was pushy about NOT using condoms, he wouldn't be around for long.
Well of course I used them when I was single. And also doubled up with birth control pill. They still stink and I would of rather not used them, but I did.
But being married, I'm thankful I don't have to use them anymore.
This goes out to all of you who are of have been in a relationship that started great and you were smart enough to practice safe sex. My question is, at what point do you get rid of the [mod cut] and enjoy sex like it was meant to be? What do you do to prepare yourself, and your partner, for this? Do you just come out and say during dinner, do you have herpes? What's the best way to go about do this?
The best way to go about this is to trust your partner. Sex is not secure (in or out of marriage). The very nature of it is a "risk" because (sorry for the religious tone here) its intention is to procreate within marriage or a monogomous relationship. The pleasure is just a really, really, nice side-effect. Once cheating occurs, or any other outside sexual force that exposes one partner, then a web begins to spread and the "risk" multiplies.
Trust, honesty, monogomy (if each person is already std-free) respect, and loyalty are values that make sex secure. It's always smart to ask questions and practice safe sex, but ultimately it's the trust and respect that you have for one another that will keep each of you from engaging in dangerous activities outside of your relationship and in secret from each other. Good luck.
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Originally Posted by MonaLisaVito
Well whatever you want to call it, the Love Glove, the Salami Sling, to me their nothing but a mood killer
Have you been drinking? You are a tad snippy tonight
More snippy than usual?! I AM drinking, but it's more likely due to the withdrawal at work.
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