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Old 07-11-2007, 09:01 AM
 
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Admit or not,some people are deemed attractive,or very attractive while others are not.

There are tons of people less attractive to others,especially people of opposite sex.Very few people pay attention to less attractive people.

Fortunately or unfortunately,I realize the fact I am a less attractive person and I am single all my life(at least by now).

I'm curious to know whether other less attractive people know the fact that they are not very attractive and how their lives are.
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Old 07-11-2007, 09:07 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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I'm not that attractive. But in my opinion, my life is great. Even after 16 years of being single...I still consider it great. For you see grasshopper...there is more to life than having sex. Sure sex can be a good thing, but having a long term friendship is much more rewarding.
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Old 07-11-2007, 09:14 AM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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Luckily there are just as many different types of attractive as there are people. No matter how "unattractive" you think you are, there is most likely a match out there for you somewhere.

Do you really want someone?
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Old 07-11-2007, 10:32 AM
 
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Luckily there are just as many different types of attractive as there are people. No matter how "unattractive" you think you are, there is most likely a match out there for you somewhere.

Do you really want someone?
Quite true.... I think I'm an example of one of those men that women are either really attracted to, or really not attracted to. Strange phenomenon really..... What's cool about it is that it's given me a sense of how it feels to be either one.
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Old 07-11-2007, 01:19 PM
 
Location: Vero Beach, Fl
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You learn as you go through life that it's not the package that's important, it's the soul or what makes that person special or unique is what is important.
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Old 07-11-2007, 01:26 PM
 
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I'm not that attractive. But in my opinion, my life is great. Even after 16 years of being single...I still consider it great. For you see grasshopper...there is more to life than having sex. Sure sex can be a good thing, but having a long term friendship is much more rewarding.
but master, she said if i can lick the pebble out of her hand, i can do anything to her,,whats a young man to do??
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Old 07-11-2007, 01:28 PM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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Admit or not,some people are deemed attractive,or very attractive while others are not.

There are tons of people less attractive to others,especially people of opposite sex.Very few people pay attention to less attractive people.

Fortunately or unfortunately,I realize the fact I am a less attractive person and I am single all my life(at least by now).

I'm curious to know whether other less attractive people know the fact that they are not very attractive and how their lives are.
To me and for me....looks are a dime a dozen...I have know some very attractive people who I wouldn't give you a plug nickle for...then others are really caring kind, intellects....

When I used to date, and I swear this is the truth...looks never meant anything to me....you have to prove to me, that your worth the looks you carry....and you will treat me with respect, regarding my feelings....I have been stepped on again and again, by people and yet, I hope I haven't lost faith in the human race....I have met some of the most inspiring positive people and the longer I've known them, honestly the more beautiful to me they become....a person is a human being first....and all else is moot. But long story short, a person is a person, who possesses so much beauty...in their own personal talents....

and when you find the person that truly believes that...you will know...sometimes good friends are even better then romantic relationships...b/c loving someone is hard...and relationships are hard...why? Because you always have to live up to someone else's idea of how you should live your life...so please remember that....

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Creme
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Old 07-11-2007, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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but master, she said if i can lick the pebble out of her hand, i can do anything to her,,whats a young man to do??
my answer would depend on whether she's attractive or not.
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Old 07-11-2007, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Personally, I've met some very ugly souls cloaked in beautiful skin.

And vice versa, I've met some diamonds in the rough!
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Old 07-11-2007, 03:35 PM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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I'm not that attractive. But in my opinion, my life is great. Even after 16 years of being single...I still consider it great. For you see grasshopper...there is more to life than having sex. Sure sex can be a good thing, but having a long term friendship is much more rewarding.

whooo hoooo, this is the second time in my life I've heard a man say that...
AND IT WAS SO GOOD!!!!!!!! Was it good for you?

Honestly, this was heartwarming and most wise...and coming from a man, makes it even all that much more special...

Used to tell an old boyfriend that, and he never understood or had a clue what I was talking about...

Rance....you are a sensi..... and your lady friend is a VERY LUCKY WOMAN! I applaud you!!!

ta dahhhhhhh
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