What is your biggest turn off in a man/woman?

[Urban Sasquatch]

My biggest turn-off in a woman is when it turns out she's a man.

[believe007]

Off the top of my head, my list includes:

Liars
Cheaters
Drinks heavily/Does drugs/Parties excessively
Stupidity
No manners
Egomaniacs
Shallow
Phoniness
Stupidity, again
Tries way too hard to impress others
Superficial
Brags way too much
Complains about everything/feels sorry for himself......

[StAcKhOuSe]

turn offs in a woman:

-overly conceited & narcissistic
-loud & too outspoken
-superficial
-tells you they are pregnant when they are not
-overly dramatic and emotional
-overly ditzy/can't have an intelligent conversation
-doesn't watch movies

i don't really care if they drink & smoke. im on the higher end of moderate drinker and i smoke occasionally, but i make a conscious attempt to eat and exercise regularly

[jobaba]

I used to think shallowness, in terms of a woman valuing looks highly and not being able to look past the physical if the inner substance is good, but I've since learned that EVERYBODY is like that, so I've relaxed on that.

I'm a minority so if she were a white supremacist, I'd say that'd be a pretty big turnoff.

[jobaba]

Originally Posted by laotzumindfu

outside of her being fat, i'll pretend that she at least is someone i would have found physically attractive at one point or another, so with that, a turnoff would be:

She lights up a cigarette.
She hawks up and spits out a loogie.
She does drugs.
she does the "wooooooooooo party" shout at a bar or somewhere.
she starts talking "jesus this..." or "jesus that...." or worse yet says "have a blessed day on her voice mail".
Mean and/or unkind to animals or old people.
Unclean - bad breathe, body odor, unkepmt hair, dirty clothes.
She pays no attention to how she looks and/or presents herself.

lol. :d