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Just to let you know I am actually in my early 30s. I recently got out of an abusive 5 year r/ship to a controlling, jealous, violent man so I wanted to take a break from serious r/ships. But I do get sexual needs so I decided to do casual r/ships. But I didn't anticipate they would get so complicated. People can't seem to just lay it all on the table. There is so many mixed messages. Saying one thing, but acting like another thing, etc. I don't know what to believe, but I just want to know where things stand. I'm find if the guys have no feelings, but when they start sending signals that they do is when it gets f*cked up.
Oh, well in that case, just watch what a guy does. Guys don't always know what they are doing either. Hormones affect the brain cells of both men and women. So disregard what the guy says, and watch what he actually does. Such as, how often he calls. How often he stays over. How long he wants to hold you. That kind of thing.
Listen you are dealing with dirt bags. Be careful out there.
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Originally Posted by yoyogirl
Just to let you know I am actually in my early 30s. I recently got out of an abusive 5 year r/ship to a controlling, jealous, violent man so I wanted to take a break from serious r/ships. But I do get sexual needs so I decided to do casual r/ships. But I didn't anticipate they would get so complicated. People can't seem to just lay it all on the table. There is so many mixed messages. Saying one thing, but acting like another thing, etc. I don't know what to believe, but I just want to know where things stand. I'm find if the guys have no feelings, but when they start sending signals that they do is when it gets f*cked up.
Casual relationships are bottomless pits that leave you empty and unfulfilled .
Yeah, wrong! Learn how to handle them, they feel great. (Before and after.) Maybe you had more expectations, thus why I mentioned it's important to be up front.. the sooner the better.. so no one gets in "over their heads".
Well I've never had that opportunity for it to be a good outcome. All the guys were unreliable dirt bags
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Originally Posted by ILikeSmartHippies
Yeah, wrong! Learn how to handle them, they feel great. (Before and after.) Maybe you had more expectations, thus why I mentioned it's important to be up front.. the sooner the better.. so no one gets in "over their heads".
Yeah, wrong! Learn how to handle them, they feel great. (Before and after.) Maybe you had more expectations, thus why I mentioned it's important to be up front.. the sooner the better.. so no one gets in "over their heads".
Wrong. Most people are unable to "handle" them...no matter WHAT they are told. Someone ALWAYS gets hurt, gets in over their head, has expectations. It's human nature.
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