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Even if it's a sex only r/ship I deserve the courtesy of at least a cancellation text, no? Me and this guy have known each other for months now. Not like we met last week and had a one night stand.
1. There is nothing courteous about a "cancellation text".
2. Not sure why you think you "deserve" anything. The guy's playing you.
Move on and drop it.
I second that. Just happened to me. Needless to say, he's done. Next. Same thing you described.
didn't intend to log in and write today but had to. Just happened to me too! I am told this is dating these days. Bullsh**. I didn't like it much either. I talked to him about it and he knew I was upset and now we have plans tonight, but in the back of my mind, I wonder if this will happen again.
I would suggest talking to him about it, making communication more clear and if you have a concrete plan, expecting him to follow through. If not, don't waste your time and frustrate yourself. Good luck, let us know if you do talk to him about it and how it goes.
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It's clear as the nose on your face. Take your finger for a second and touch your nose, there now thats real, its there and you can feel it.... Your not a priority or even that important, heck not even a phone call to be polite and curtious .......not quite sure how many of these you need to read before it begins to feel like your nose....it is what it is
Go out and enjoy your weekend and try to have some fun
Maybe I'm grasping at straws, but when I saw him on Monday he was acting like he really likes me. Hugging and kissing and stuff and then invited himself over this weekend, wanted me to text him when I got home, etc.. Not acting like a guy who was about to move on and diss me. So you see why I think it's strange he would suddenly blow me off like that?
Monday was also the day I told him I just want to have sex with him and that's it. I also let it drop that I'm dating other guys.
Is there a chance that maybe he does like me and figured out he is not okay with the only sex thing, especially since he knows I date other guys too? Maybe he felt used?
Maybe I'm grasping at straws but I'm just trying to figure this out. It just doesn't make sense to me so far.
The OP is confusing me. First she starts about 18 threads about just wanting to do the bone dance with guys only, no strings attached. Now she has this thread acting all confused about him not calling or texting her back.
What's is gonna be no strings attached sex, or the whole drama of "Will he call me back"
Chowhound...to me "no strings attached" doesn't mean treating someone with complete disregard. There is still common human decency and courtesy, no?
It's like this. HE made plans with ME for a holiday weekend. I could have planned something else! But I left my weekend open for him because he acted all eager and excited to come see me. So I don't know why you can't see how confusing and unreasonable it is that he can't even give me the common courtesy to let me know he's not coming after all! A text saying "I can't come" would have taken literally less than 30 seconds! I don't even deserve that, even though it is just a NSA r/ship???
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Well maybe just maybe now that he has found out all you want is a sex only relationship and you have admitted to seeing other men. He may have been into you a wee bit more when he made his plans then found out your a player.....you may have scared him or possibly he lost all respect for you and cant even see himself or bring himself to call and feels no remorse whatsoever. What does it matter? you got others to play with!
Nah he doesn't. Flaking out on someone is a pretty clear explanation of how you feel about them.
Yeah, I agree with him ^^
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