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Old 06-10-2009, 09:39 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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Yeah, sorry dearie. I see playing here, not flirting. Keep your mind on your job and out of your pants.

 
Old 06-11-2009, 04:57 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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I think TVSG's overactive imagination is in overdrive again,
 
Old 06-11-2009, 06:44 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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Originally Posted by AliveandWell View Post
The key word there is usually. And usually does not mean always. People should take risks in life. There have been times where even I have thought about office romances and its because I am human. I've even had crushes on people that were in relationships with someone else. You really can't control who you have crushes on. I know this from my personal experience. And even if you do get in trouble because you try to start an office romance with someone, the only thing you will lose is your job, that's it. Not your house, car or cds or anything else.
Unless, you come from money, you NEED job to pay for those things, though, so why risk losing it?...
 
Old 06-11-2009, 06:58 AM
 
Location: pittsburgh
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i had a girl flrit with me at work and she had a b/f
well after a few months she dumped him and went for me
we dated for 6 months and the d-bag left me
but yet i still gotta see her at work sometimes

if you work with her
DON'T DO IT
you will regret it
 
Old 06-11-2009, 07:41 AM
 
Location: Columbus, OH
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she... has being flirting non stop. When she was helping me with something on the computer her body was up against my leg and I felt this chill go up my spine....Also how is it everytime she plays a song at her cubicle its a song I liked from the past?? Is this what a girl would do to me if I was in a relationship? It almost makes you wonder why do people even get involved.
Oh poor you, you've got this awesome girl who you're attracted to and flirts with you every day at work. Ya... YOUR life sucks. Im sure nobody in the world would want to have that happen to them .

You like her, and you have similar music taste. Heres an idea, enjoy it! You do not have to get romantically involved but just play along, flirt right back. Who knows, maybe she will dump the other guy for you but If nothing else shes a good reason to get out of bed in the morning .
 
Old 06-11-2009, 07:49 AM
 
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Oh poor you, you've got this awesome girl who you're attracted to and flirts with you every day at work. Ya... YOUR life sucks. Im sure nobody in the world would want to have that happen to them .

You like her, and you have similar music taste. Heres an idea, enjoy it! You do not have to get romantically involved but just play along, flirt right back. Who knows, maybe she will dump the other guy for you but If nothing else shes a good reason to get out of bed in the morning .
ha ha ha couldn't agree with you more
 
Old 06-11-2009, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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The key word there is usually. And usually does not mean always. People should take risks in life. There have been times where even I have thought about office romances and its because I am human. I've even had crushes on people that were in relationships with someone else. You really can't control who you have crushes on. I know this from my personal experience. And even if you do get in trouble because you try to start an office romance with someone, the only thing you will lose is your job, that's it. Not your house, car or cds or anything else.
Doesn't one tend to follow the other? Job loss usually is not a very good thing for your finances.........
 
Old 06-11-2009, 08:02 AM
 
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Don't hump the help.
 
Old 06-11-2009, 08:11 AM
 
Location: Texas
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So a woman can't joke or tease you or even stand near you without you going to the sexual?

We're not there, so we don't really know what she's doing, but try not to read between the lines.
 
Old 06-11-2009, 08:12 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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She's just being friendly. Take it for what it is. You're just reading more into it because you want to date her. Understandable, but since you know she has a bf, simply be her friend and if she breaks up with him one day, she will look at you to be her next guy. To get her thinking in that direction (and release the pressure valve) ask her to help you meet women. She'll have to think of you in datable terms if she's setting you up with other women.
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