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Old 06-18-2009, 07:07 AM
 
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Also to add to that, a Cougar is OVER age 40.

You are a MILF first, then a cougar, but only a cougar if you actively seek much younger men.
A point of clarification but MILF's can be in their 40's and even 50's.
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Old 06-18-2009, 07:15 AM
 
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Women raise their children and then want to return to going out, having fun and having sex.
About that same time, their husbands are settling into a sedentary life style and aren't interested (or interesting) anymore.
So, the women are forced to look elsewhere, and luckily there are plenty of young guys looking to have fun.
Most women I know that have dated much younger guys have said that they are hot but NOT interesting....just way too much of a maturity and mental mismatch.

My view of cougaring is that it's just for sex.

The old stereotype of the guy hitting 40, dumping the wifey for the secretary and splitting has given way over the years. I hear of a lot more gals having the mid-life crisis and going full cougar than the guy doing it anymore.

It's easier for women around that age to find casual sex partners than men too.
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Old 06-18-2009, 07:19 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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The old stereotype of the guy hitting 40, dumping the wifey for the secretary and splitting has given way over the years. I hear of a lot more gals having the mid-life crisis and going full cougar than the guy doing it anymore.
@ the term "going full cougar"....I'mma have to use that one....lol!!
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Old 06-18-2009, 07:22 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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For those that have a problem with the term Cougar....its not that different than bachelor for a single male..... its just a convenient term, so you can make a point without having to elaborate.
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Old 06-18-2009, 07:50 AM
 
Location: Bay Area
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I believe that this kind of relationship has always existed due to various reasons but has not been widely accepted or popular until Demi Moore and Ashton acctually started dating and got married...... i believe that the words cougar and MILF might or might not came from the porn industry but it surely made it popular....here are some reasons why women might date younger men:

1) Since most men goes for younger women, older women feels like they can do the same with the younger men
2) sex....believes that younger guy is more sexually active, to make up for experience
3) perhaps it helps the women feel younger
4) most importantly though, it is to prove to herself that she still "got it"
5) or it just might be pure love
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Old 06-18-2009, 07:56 AM
 
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Because women are no longer concerned with giving herpes or gential warts to anyone. Spread the love!
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Old 06-18-2009, 08:00 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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Because women are no longer concerned with giving herpes or gential warts to anyone. Spread the love!
..and the same can be said about men...

Men be having all types of stuff wrong....flames coming out of their pee-holes, and what not, and still won't get checked...
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Old 06-18-2009, 08:04 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Because women are no longer concerned with giving herpes or gential warts to anyone. Spread the love!
You sound like you are speaking from personal experience lol
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Old 06-18-2009, 08:44 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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Because women are no longer concerned with giving herpes or gential warts to anyone. Spread the love!
Ha ha yeah, we figured we'd return the favor from men who weren't concerned with giving herpes or warts to us...
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Old 06-18-2009, 08:49 AM
 
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Glad to hear that women can take pride is lowering themselves these days.
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