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Old 06-23-2009, 05:58 AM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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For the love of God OP...just put out, so this thread can die! Put a sock in your mouth if your so afraid of making too much noise!
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High Five ya!!!!
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Old 06-23-2009, 04:39 PM
 
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Ah, do you realize that for about 6,000 years kids had to listen to their parents having sex 2 feet from them in the hut/yurt/tepee etc.? Overhearing 'something' behind a closed door is NOT going to do your son any harm, despite everything this idiotic western culture would have you believe.
I tend to agree but some women may.....how can I put it......get a little too "enthusiastic"!

Don't want the ten year old to have nightmares. This could take years of therapy.
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Old 06-23-2009, 05:13 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Right.....Thats basically it guys. He wants sex during the week. Summer vacation is here, kid is at home. He`s 10! Even with the bedroom door locked, I`m afraid that he will hear something that he doesn`t need to hear.... He`s a bit frustrated.
Your husband will be cheating on you in about 5.......4...........3.......2............1.......! !

YOU better do something about it or else he WILL go out and find someone who will. There are things that YOU can do for him to help with his problem.
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Old 06-24-2009, 11:27 AM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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I am thinking from what you have said that this child is your husbands from a previous marriage?? I can see feeling creepy about that.

I would have your husband talk to his son and explain that sometimes you and he need some time alone.

Get a lock for the door and turn up the music, get your husband to explain that if he finds the door locked and the music on, he is to leave you alone unless he is personally ON FIRE or the HOUSE is on fire.
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Old 06-24-2009, 02:43 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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I agree. This is a lousy excuse for not having sex with your husband. If you are not going to take care of him, he is going to start looking elsewhere. No man is going to put up with that for too long!
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Old 06-24-2009, 02:51 PM
 
Location: Bay Area
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1. Put a movie in that he has been wanting to see, give him some popcorn and a drink, then go sneak into the bedroom with your husband and voila!

2. Doesn't he shower? Quickies while he showers.

3. What about after he goes to sleep at night or before he wakes up in the morning?

4. Is he home 24/7? Its summer! Put him in activities so you two can have your own activities.

PS The advice above of put out or he will find it elsewhere is just sickening. Men are not all that weak and immoral.
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Old 06-24-2009, 02:56 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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Men are not all that weak and immoral.
Those who like sex and have been cut off for a good portion of the week are prime candidates for weakness and immorality.
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Old 06-24-2009, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Toledo
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Right.....Thats basically it guys. He wants sex during the week. Summer vacation is here, kid is at home. He`s 10! Even with the bedroom door locked, I`m afraid that he will hear something that he doesn`t need to hear.... He`s a bit frustrated.
Kids aren't that fragile. Outside of some giggling, your son will be fine. Blast the radio if you think it will bother him. Just note that he will eventually put two and two together.
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Old 06-24-2009, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Bay Area
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Those who like sex and have been cut off for a good portion of the week are prime candidates for weakness and immorality.
Those who like sex and don't have sex for part of the week, and resort to weakness and immorality in the form of cheating have serious sex addiction and self control issues and need major help.

Plus, its their child. The father can find something to do with the kid as well, its not all her responsibility. Hire a sitter for a few hours every Friday or take him to karate. Its not only up to her.
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