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Old 07-02-2009, 09:22 AM
 
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What do you think of this? I met a guy who seems nice. We have chatted on the phone and he claims to like me but he has not asked me on a real date yet. I just think that is weird. We have talked on the phone several times over the past 7 weeks and he has never asked me out. What do you think about this? One of my friends said that maybe he is broke......lol
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Old 07-02-2009, 09:38 AM
 
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Ask him out.
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Old 07-02-2009, 09:42 AM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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What do you think of this? I met a guy who seems nice. We have chatted on the phone and he claims to like me but he has not asked me on a real date yet. I just think that is weird. We have talked on the phone several times over the past 7 weeks and he has never asked me out. What do you think about this? One of my friends said that maybe he is broke......lol

yes, if your interested in him, invite him to go on a picnic or something....bring some music, and a boomerang....or frisbe
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Old 07-02-2009, 09:54 AM
 
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I have dropped hints. I told him if you want to hang out call me. But he never does, I will ask him "what are you doing today?" and he always has something to do so I told him when you get some free time and you want to do something let me know.
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Old 07-02-2009, 09:57 AM
 
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Here's a true story that happened to me and maybe it'll work for you.

Years ago when I was young, stupid and broke (now I'm old, stupid and broke) a gal I was in lust with but didn't feel I could ask out (she was a summer Playboy Bunny in LA) approaced me in front of a group of friends and said, "[bp], you know what your problem is"? "What"? I asked. She siad, "You need to get laid. Wanna go to a movie with me"?

And the rest, as they say, was history.

Give it a try. Let us know how it went.
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Old 07-02-2009, 10:02 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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What do you think of this? I met a guy who seems nice. We have chatted on the phone and he claims to like me but he has not asked me on a real date yet. I just think that is weird. We have talked on the phone several times over the past 7 weeks and he has never asked me out. What do you think about this? One of my friends said that maybe he is broke......lol
What age are you? esp if you are 16-25 or so. Believe it or not some guys are just shy. Not saying that is what is going on, but it is a possiblity.
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Old 07-02-2009, 10:02 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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You've been talking to this guy for seven weeks, dropping hints and letting him know you are interested, and he hasn't asked you out? I suspect he's either not interested in you that way (for whatever reason), or he has no spine. Maybe you ask him out ... then what? Wait three or four dates before you kiss him because he doesn't have the starch to kiss you?

SEVEN WEEKS? That's almost two months. The summer will be over before you know it, and you'll still be waiting around for this guy.
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Old 07-02-2009, 10:03 AM
 
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You want a date, then make the move. There's no rulebook that says the guy has to be the one doing the asking. If he refuses, then move on and find someone else.
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Old 07-02-2009, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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What do you think of this? I met a guy who seems nice. We have chatted on the phone and he claims to like me but he has not asked me on a real date yet. I just think that is weird. We have talked on the phone several times over the past 7 weeks and he has never asked me out. What do you think about this? One of my friends said that maybe he is broke......lol
So don't talk to him on the phone anymore. Why would you allow a man to "date" you over the phone? That is the worst of the worst.
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Old 07-02-2009, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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You want a date, then make the move. There's no rulebook that says the guy has to be the one doing the asking. If he refuses, then move on and find someone else.
Spoken like a true man! Sperm chases egg. If you want to play the sperm, then take him out to dinner! Let's hope he is hot, works out at the gym a lot, and knows how to dress enticingly!
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