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I mean,wives are submissive,take all the houseworks,always husband and kid first, don't spend money on herself.
It seems to me that woman who like to spend money on herself,who argue with her husband,who share the houseworks with her husband(even if she doesn't work full-time) more likely get a better husband.
Which one could better describe men's instinct, protecting women or conquering women?
I was a traditional housewife but I was never treated as a doormat.
Give me a break. I have an excellent marriage. I provide my husband with opportunity and support, and submissiveness does not come into play. There is no way I could have the husband I do if I were an adult-child.
Hold on a second!!!
I never said anything about an "adult-child."
A woman plays a significant role in the family. She is not a child!
What I was saying is a traditional woman would love for her husband to take the lead in planning a date, holding the door for her, picking her up at the door, having reservations already made, getting her chair, picking up the tab. She just has to enjoy the male role in taking the lead.
Today, many men do not know how to be a man. To be a gentleman. They are not taught. So you ladies will have to encourage him to take that role. Little by little he will feel confident and will make decisions for the family, learn to be a man and take care of his woman's needs.
Women too have to learn roles that were never taught to them either.
Society has gone a long way from the family uniting together at a dinner table with a healthy conversation of the days activities.
I'm telling you the family circle is going to pot.
Unless a person is into kinky role play, which is dandy, submissive equates child. period. And those that desire submissive are control freaks. Both are emotionally stunted and I wouldn't say either in such a relationship are more than children any way.
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Today, many men do not know how to be a man. To be a gentleman. They are not taught. So you ladies will have to encourage him to take that role. Little by little he will feel confident and will make decisions for the family, learn to be a man and take care of his woman's needs.
I don't believe nudging from anybody will manifest a responsible adult. There are plenty of men and women that don't need coaxing. Why? Because they're not children. It is not gender roles that define an adult. The idea that individual maturity is dependent on another is completely foreign to me.
Really? You think that a woman essentially has to become a willing slave to find a husband. Really? You know, we really miss you here on earth. When come back leave that crap in space, will ya?
you are slave at your 95 job to a strange rand you are doing it willingly.but when it comes of raising children and cleaning a house you are a slave and you don't like it.no wonder this country is going down the toiled when women thinks she is a slave if she keeps a house clean and raise her children to be respectable people.i would never married women like you, you have penis envy probably and guy that is with you,you are probably trying to feminize.
I dated a very traditional woman. It was really nice to be pampered and feel like a king in my castle.
My wife is a career professional and that works very well for me as well,, however, I'm more of the court jester than the king and I cherish those rare days when my wife goes all domestic on me.
I'm very traditional, it's how I was raised however I wouldn't be a wife to a man who didn't know how to handle a traditional wife. Not every man is equipped to be a leader or know their role as a husband to a traditional wife. Submissive does not equal doormat and if the man's role as a husband is done correctly, the wife wouldn't ever feel like a doormat. He will show through his actions that she is cherished and appreciated.
you are slave at your 95 job to a strange rand you are doing it willingly.but when it comes of raising children and cleaning a house you are a slave and you don't like it.no wonder this country is going down the toiled when women thinks she is a slave if she keeps a house clean and raise her children to be respectable people.i would never married women like you, you have penis envy probably and guy that is with you,you are probably trying to feminize.
Im not sure what a "strange rand" is but I get a nice salary, flexable hours, vacation, leave days, sick leave and insurance benefits from my 40hr. a week job. While there I am also protected from physical and sexual abuse and harrassment, I can have adult conversations have a nice uninterupted lunch and grab a drink after work with my peers. Hardly a definition of slavery.
When I am home cleaning and cooking and raising children, I have none of the above. Having no income I am at the mercy of another to provide food, shelter and medical care, control when and where I can travel, etc.
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