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Old 01-06-2010, 05:54 PM
 
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I am living in the Miami/Fort Lauderdale Area and I don't know if this is something going on every where but it seems like women between the ages of 14 and 27 are being brainwashed to be dress/act slutty. I am strongly emphasising the 14-19 demographic tho.

Yes, the fashion marketed to young women can be pretty skanky, but that is a fact we all know. I am talking about women working at hooters who wear it like a badge, or women who spend excessive amount of time and money getting hair extensions and spray on tans, women who get all of their confidence from what men think of them, women who disfigure their bodies with cosmetic surgery.

Its mind boggling.

I guess I used to dress somewhat hoochie, but I never acted that way.

I started realising all of this when I was an exotic dancer for a year (because I had to do it), not because I wanted to "feel sexy" or some bullcrap. I had to pay for some medical bills, buy a new car, and go back to college.

This was around the time I started dressing more conservative. I was being hit on and stared at all night at work and then during the day in my free time. Its straight up disrespect that some women take as a compliment. I was always being stared at like some toy (both at work and not at work). I realised that some people enjoy this. Some people enjoy the creepy leers.

Its one thing for someone to compliment you, but its another thing to yell "Thank-you daddy" across a crowded street.


Anyways, as soon as I paid for everything I needed to I went back to bartending.

It seems like a lot of young girls are just wannabe strippers. Its really sad.

In the 50s, society was turning young women into stepford wives.Now todays society is turning the young women into Stepford Sluts.

Why are so many women basing their self-worth off of what some horny guys think of them?

Its just really sad to me.

I am 21 so maybe I am just ahead of my time
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Old 01-06-2010, 05:58 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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A stepford wife has class......your post reference is trash.
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Old 01-06-2010, 06:04 PM
 
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Lol, but can you see where I am coming from?

This may be an issue that effects women more than men (which are you?) but this effects men too.

Think of your daughters, sisters, and good female friends.

The other day I saw three girls that couldn't be older than 12 walking around in belly shirts and jeans so low slung you could see that little crease area right about the you know what.
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Old 01-06-2010, 06:04 PM
 
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14 - 17 year-olds are not women, they're girls.
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Old 01-06-2010, 06:04 PM
 
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Oh whoa to have such problems. Women are skanks for what they wear and yet you are probably considered one yourself by others for what you don't wear. Careful where you throw stones.
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Old 01-06-2010, 06:07 PM
 
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It is sad. Really sad.
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Old 01-06-2010, 06:08 PM
 
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This thread reminds me of something Einstein once said: "A question that sometimes drives me hazy: am I or are the others crazy?"

Maybe I am prude, maybe I am not.

I believe women should be able to walk around covering as much of their bodies as men do and still be able to feel like a shining star.

Maybe its just us youngins
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Old 01-06-2010, 06:10 PM
 
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14 - 17 year-olds are not women, they're girls.
This is true. They have malleble minds, Miley Cyrus is on Nickelodion dancing on a stripper pole and people still allow their kids to watch that ****
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Old 01-06-2010, 06:12 PM
 
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Oh whoa to have such problems. Women are skanks for what they wear and yet you are probably considered one yourself by others for what you don't wear. Careful where you throw stones.
My post stated that besides the obvious fact that young women these days dress somewhat floozy, that is not what I was talking about.

Even if you want to go there, why is it fashionable for women to exploit our bodies and not for men?

I am sure there are plenty of ladies who would like to go in to the office and see a male co-worker exposing some ball cleavage or dick neck. Maybe even a deep V-neck so we can check out the chest hair.
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Old 01-06-2010, 06:12 PM
 
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I'm female. Pre-teens with parents that let their girls walk out of the house this way.....need the oil changed in their brain.

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Lol, but can you see where I am coming from?

This may be an issue that effects women more than men (which are you?) but this effects men too.

Think of your daughters, sisters, and good female friends.

The other day I saw three girls that couldn't be older than 12 walking around in belly shirts and jeans so low slung you could see that little crease area right about the you know what.
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