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Old 07-21-2009, 11:45 PM
 
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I have faded away from several women for various reasons. I don't think it was anything that malicious just the circumstances. Especially if you had a really bad first date and there is no further interest, then there really isn't a point in calling up and saying "hey it's not working out" because there never was anything to begin with. Other times they went back to their home country and it just faded away.

I've had women do it to me also, so no big deal. If it's not meant to be, then it just isn't. Why waste anymore time on it.
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Old 07-21-2009, 11:48 PM
 
Location: southern california
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she did some stuff she should not have done. done it 1000 times. she already knows what she did did it w/ you & 100 guys like you.
she is waiting for you to come back and esplain it to her so she can scratch your eyes out.
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Old 07-22-2009, 05:32 AM
 
Location: pittsburgh
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When a woman vanishes

"I'll call ya tommorow"
and the Phone never rang

its happened to me
it sux
but there is nothing you can do about it
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Old 07-22-2009, 07:36 AM
 
Location: Frisco, TX
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I've had "the fadeaway" treatment, but as the article points out, it was usually with guys I met online. Hmmmmm, interesting correlation.

As another poster mentioned, it also seems to occur when guys start out "hot and heavy".

Just two things to keep in mind...
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Old 07-22-2009, 07:58 AM
 
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A few years ago, I was dating a very nice man. Everything was going well. We were having a great time together. He went away on a business trip and before he left, he said, "I can't wait to see you when I get back," and that was the last I heard from him. To this day, I still don't know for sure what happened. I know for a fact he was not married. I never slept with him. But I suspect, he found another tail to chase. Maybe one that put out?
You don't know that.
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Old 07-22-2009, 05:12 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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You don't know that.
I can take a pretty good guess!
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Old 07-22-2009, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Northern NH
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A friend of mine said that her now husband had a former fiance move 3,000 miles away and just never say anything to him. This is why he was afraid to commit to my friend....he said I feel like there was more to the story but whatever.....
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Old 07-22-2009, 08:55 PM
 
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Sounds like something I would do...wait, I have done it. It's just easier. That simple. Who wants to go through a bunch of interrogation questions, crying, yelling, cussing,...you get the idea. By the time you wake up, I'm probably 100 miles away.

My only friends are pirates
It's just who I am
I'm better off a memory, than as your man


as the song goes
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Old 07-22-2009, 09:06 PM
 
Location: lala land
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Ladies, share your stories about dates who go missing in action. What happened? How did you react? Did you ever hear from him again?
This has never happened to me with someone I really liked. Usually just guys I was lukewarm about to begin with, so wasn't really hurt when they stopped calling. And to be honest, I'm usually the one who "disappears".
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