i'm so in pain (ladies, friends, feelings, honest)
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i posted a thread about me and the fwb. he came to see me few days ago and talking sweetly to me again. i didn't believe him cause he hasn't come to see me for 3 months which he explains he's not in town
i wanted to have a talk with him but didn't know where to start so i kept silence for long time which made him fallinng asleep, i was even more upset cause i would never fall asleep on him.
at the end of that 'date', he suddenly said' so you just want me for sex, why can't you at least pretend you like me?' i was astonished, didn't know where is this from but i didn't speak for myself either. i jguess i was too upset to say anything.
now he's not talking to me anymore. he's on my msn and i can see him getting online daily but he didn't say a word to me.
i admit i really care for him and the thought of not being able to see him again breaks my heart.
how can i overcome the pain.? i've known him for so long it's like he''s a part of my life so im not sure i can delete him.
thats what most fwb arent really successful. usually one person ends up really hurt. i found with them there is a common trend:
1. one person involved thinks by having the other as their fwb, they will end up having the other person "like them" and they will end up together
2. could start out just merely as a friends, but one person who thinks they are "strong and could detach their emotions", end up liking the other.
i really do not think most people can handle a fwb. i was basically type 1, and freaked out before we met as fwb lol.
FWB is one of those things where both have to be in complete agreement, which is hardly ever the case. One person's feelings change just a little bit and it all explodes. I know for myself that I'd start caring too much, more than FWB's should and that's why I would never even enter such an agreement.
To the OP, you either need to talk to eachother and work it out and if you can't do that, consider it over and try to move on and learn from it..it's all you can do, you can't force people to care or not care
This is why people should not do the FWB thing. It is textbook.
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