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View Poll Results: What's the dealbreaker?
Woman with kids 30 21.74%
gold-digger 40 28.99%
woman with a slutty past 28 20.29%
attention ***** 15 10.87%
Other 25 18.12%
Voters: 138. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-18-2009, 09:57 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Just curious, define "slutty past." How many is too many? (and I'm asking this while fully aware that there is a double standard for men and women)
He-he, according to this forum:

- if you haven't been married - 1!
- if you've been married - the number of husbands! You might argue some marriage got annulled on the basis of not being consummated!
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Old 08-18-2009, 09:58 PM
 
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Just curious, define "slutty past." How many is too many? (and I'm asking this while fully aware that there is a double standard for men and women)
This is going to vary by person to person and I will admit that in our culture it is more acceptable for a man to do this than a woman.
For me personally, I'd say anything over 12 is a ****. I by contrast have been with one and it was by choice. That being said, I only judge women who get close to me and even then its not verbal but more along the lines of "I dont think we're compatible".
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Old 08-19-2009, 01:46 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Republican/Conservative/Neocon/Klan/Clueless values. Absolutely have never been interested in any woman who is backwards in this manner.
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Old 08-19-2009, 07:10 AM
 
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As you know, it only takes one wrong dude even hypothetically the first one she did it with to potentially get STD(s) from him.

Then one can become the 81st getting infected from her.
A virgin can also contract gonorrhea from a tractor...
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Old 08-19-2009, 07:13 AM
 
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A virgin can also contract gonorrhea from a tractor...
Heck, one cannot be too careful these days when one's health can be put in jeopardy.
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Old 08-19-2009, 08:17 AM
 
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By far, the biggest turnoff is having a slutty past. If you sleep with guys like it's no big deal, then that means you clearly don't value yourself and you're probably more likely to cheat.
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Old 08-19-2009, 08:32 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I chose gold digger. Who doesnt have a "past?" When you marry, you are supposed to be bringing TRUST into the marriage. So why would I worry about her past?
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Old 08-19-2009, 08:34 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Other, too much nagging or negativity....don't want to be around anyone who brings me down.....
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Old 08-19-2009, 11:49 AM
 
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I chose gold digger. Who doesnt have a "past?" When you marry, you are supposed to be bringing TRUST into the marriage. So why would I worry about her past?
The way I see it, girlfriend/boyfriend is where the trust is build. Marriage simply brings a financial reward for being good (tax break) and financial consquences if you mess up (half you're belongs, court and lawyer fees)
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Old 08-19-2009, 07:40 PM
 
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Gold-Digger, the rest dont bother me.
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