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View Poll Results: What's the dealbreaker?
Woman with kids 30 21.74%
gold-digger 40 28.99%
woman with a slutty past 28 20.29%
attention ***** 15 10.87%
Other 25 18.12%
Voters: 138. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 04-04-2011, 12:45 AM
 
Location: Washington County, ME
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I don't date women with kids. I want to start a family, not become part of one, and there's also the added worries of dealing with the kid's or kids' baby daddies. And I also don't date women who are divorced or previously married.
Why no one who's been married before and divorced?
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Old 04-04-2011, 01:24 AM
 
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I hope I never meet any guys like you lot who voted “women with slutty pasts”. What someone did in their past (as long as it is not illegal) shouldn’t affect your present judgment of them at all, it’s screwed up that that would even be an option.
Yes, its good to be a man because we cant be a ****, we can however have many conquests. lol I have to admit I was wondering what slutty was? Slept around a little? Two football teams at once?

I wouldn't worry too much about it nilla. There are plenty of guys out there that figure a girls previous experience just helps them to appreciate what they got in front of them.
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Old 04-04-2011, 04:03 AM
 
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They are all potential deal breakers but the biggest one imo is slutty past. If she valued 80 other dudes enough to have sex with them what makes me so special being number 81?
She might ask that about you.
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Old 04-04-2011, 04:07 AM
 
Location: Northside Of Jacksonville
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All are dealbreakers for me. In the case of option 1, I'd definitely consider dating a woman with kids as long as it's not more than 1. 2 is a definitive no. Depending on the circumstances, the father could be a dog and if I can be a positive male in that kid's life, that will make all the difference in the world
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Old 04-04-2011, 12:52 PM
 
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option #3! slutty past is a dealbreaker! Takes the "specialness" or meaning out of the relationship.
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Old 04-04-2011, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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The biggest dealbreaker is that she's already seeing someone else!
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Old 04-04-2011, 01:14 PM
 
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The biggest dealbreaker is that she's already seeing someone else!

Not always the case....My wife and I have been happily married for almost 3 years now. We have one daughter and another on the way. When we first started to see each other, we were both engaged to other people. Sometimes you don't realize what you have....until you find someone better.
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Old 04-04-2011, 01:25 PM
 
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All are dealbreakers for me. In the case of option 1, I'd definitely consider dating a woman with kids as long as it's not more than 1. 2 is a definitive no. Depending on the circumstances, the father could be a dog and if I can be a positive male in that kid's life, that will make all the difference in the world
Just curious: what would be the difference between one and two kids? I can understand if you said that you wouldn't date a woman with several or many kids, but would you mind explaining why there's such a huge difference between 1 and 2 with you?

Not judging you or anything...just interested in your reasoning
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Old 04-04-2011, 01:30 PM
 
Location: overlooking the mighty MO
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at my age nothing is a deal breaker unless they ask about my finances-- that tells me their only looking for money
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Old 04-04-2011, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Not always the case....My wife and I have been happily married for almost 3 years now. We have one daughter and another on the way. When we first started to see each other, we were both engaged to other people. Sometimes you don't realize what you have....until you find someone better.

It worked for you. Me, I won't see someone who is already attached, and won't date someone who is dating other people.
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