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Old 09-23-2009, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I usually see how he dresses at the bar...how he acts around women..is he jumping to one then another...can he hold a conversation....can he dance..or try...is he buying drinks. My friends date couldn't even buy her drinks..I bought it for her. sheesh. I look for manners..pulling a chair out for me. Holding a door..as i'm leaving putting my coat on. Leaving his # verses asking for mine.
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Old 09-23-2009, 07:13 PM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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Smell and attire.

It's the proverbial foot in the doorway.

The conversation and how he handles himself determines whether he gets to come inside and lock the door.
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Old 09-23-2009, 07:50 PM
 
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Smell and attire, initially.

That just gave me an idea for blind date roll up tux with a button for skunk odour.
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Old 09-23-2009, 07:53 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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My friend and I were talking and we seemed to have a difference of opinion. The coversation was about women in bars (the ones actually looking for action).
He says these women pay more attention to the men's attire and the way guys smell more than anything else.
I say these women pay attention to eye contact and the way a guy handles himself during the initial conversation conversation.
What say you?
As a guy who has always done fairly well with the ladies, I say they pay attention to both. They look at:

1. How do you look (body, face, hair, etc.)
2. How are you dressed (depends on the type of place you are in)
3. How you smell
4. Your personality

Get these 4 things down and you'll score chicks every time out.
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Old 09-23-2009, 08:06 PM
 
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I think scent and clothing are a secondary thing. I don't smell someone and think he's interesting. lol. Same thing with clothes.

During the "initial conversation conversation" is when I figure out if I think he's alright.

However, I'm not a bar patron and never go out looking to get some.
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Old 09-23-2009, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Yup, like a wolf circling its prey.
Whoa - now I've got shivers running up my spine...
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Old 09-23-2009, 09:06 PM
 
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Whoa - now I've got shivers running up my spine...
Better than pee running down your leg.....
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Old 09-23-2009, 09:12 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Better than pee running down your leg.....
LOL!

It's when they both happen at the same time you know you're in deep doo-doo...
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Old 09-24-2009, 12:18 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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For some its a mixture of both. I think in that type of situation, if they are horny it might be what they are wearing and how they smell.

I hate the bar scene (all players come out) anyway, but the way a man handles himself in a conversation works for me. I can tell if all he wants is a piece of a-- or if his line is full of sh--. The way a man carries himself is what I believe...not what he says.

Everyone is a perfect onion in the beginning and as time goes by you start to peel off the true layers of a person.

Actions speak louder then words.


I wanna believe that 99% of men in bars are looking for a piece of A$$
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Old 09-24-2009, 05:34 AM
 
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I wanna believe that 99% of men in bars are looking for a piece of A$$
Go back to your own room, I mean threads.
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