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Old 08-02-2010, 07:41 PM
 
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If a guy keeps calling and texting all day, IM on the computer and emailing, comming over to make dinners, watch movies, play video games etc, even though he has been cut-off and knows he isn't getting any anymore, what exactly is he doing???

What the heck does he want from me???

Is this a game, is he trying to get me to want him?

He keeps trying to tempt me.....is this some trick?
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Old 08-02-2010, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Would you feel better if he had said "the hell with this, I'm outta here"?

Maybe he really does like you enough to bide his time until he can get back in your pants.
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Old 08-02-2010, 07:46 PM
 
Location: DC
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There was a girl doing that with some guy friends of mine. We all told them she was nuts, but one slept with her anyway, and would then constantly come over uninvited (even after he got back with his old girlfriend and said that he didn't want anything more to do with her). It got to the point where he would have to shut off all the lights and lock the door, because she'd peek through the windows and walk right in. Best we can figure, her strategy was to wear them down until one finally hooked up with her. It's an interesting (and irritating) method, but worked for her. She made the rounds with 3 of the guys for almost a year, hopping from #1 to #2 to #3 and then back to #1 again.

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Old 08-02-2010, 07:49 PM
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he knows there a secret safe hidden somewhere in your wall full of money and he's gonna find it eventually

thats usually why guys stick around like that
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Old 08-02-2010, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Is that a 3rd one...? I lost count.
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Old 08-02-2010, 08:01 PM
 
Location: DFW
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It's the free beer in the Fridge and Pot in the night stand.

Or he likes you and wants a relationship. Does he ask to borrow your car ?
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Old 08-02-2010, 08:02 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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Olympics guy or ... "Geek guy", was it? No, that was "Player guy".

Please, enlighten us, misswee. Which guy are you referring to?
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Old 08-02-2010, 08:21 PM
 
Location: bold new city of the south
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Maybe he's in love, and wants to be close to you?
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Old 08-02-2010, 08:44 PM
 
Location: Outside always.
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I don't know what could he want???? I am sure that you are going to wind up telling us that he wants to have a relationship with you, that he will do anything to be around you. I know what I want...no more threads about player guy, olympic guy, or any other guy. I can't keep up any more...and I am considering changing my screen name to mabeybaby in honor of all your many threads.
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Old 08-02-2010, 09:21 PM
 
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Wow...tough crowd.
Slightly....

Yeah, it is guy number 2, player guy...

I had already lost interest in olympics guy, and cut-off player guy to just be friends.

I want to meet someone who will get to know me properly before trying to get in my pants weather I am drinking or not.

I want the guy who will be a gentleman and turn ME down for once. Make ME wait too.


If the player guy is doing this now.... waiting.... mabey there is a chance of something here.
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