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Old 10-21-2009, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Say you are dating someone and they express a certain physical preference to your face that you know you do not have, example.. I do not like X, Y, Z and you know that you are X, Y and Z, but they also add that they may be willing to "compromise" on that if there are other aspects.

Would you consider such a remark an insult? Would you accept such a compromise? Would you break it off?
It would be very rude...move on..."NEXT"
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Old 10-21-2009, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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This is one reason dating someone from an advert is just sooo not my thing. In "real" life two people meet, like the look of each other, have a bit of a chat, then maybe one asks the other out. There shouldn't be any issues about whether they will change to be your type, because if you didn't like the look of them, why the he** did you ask or accept a date with them?
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Old 10-21-2009, 07:58 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Similar thing happened to me multiple times... I am half black / half white I have had guys tell me they prefer to date white girls (I have tan skin I clearly do not look fully white), had a guy tell me I am not indian but "kind of still his type", and even had one guy ask me to bleach my hair blond so I could look like a "hot asian with blond hair". I AM NOT EVEN ASIAN!!! I hate people who ask others to change...
You just killed everything child-like in me... That many idiots in this world?!
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:14 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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Sick! Don't tell me she's still with him...
No, thank goodness. That wasn't the reason they broke up, but it was definitely a contributing factor. She was really mad at him after he made that comment.
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:18 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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No, thank goodness. That wasn't the reason they broke up, but it was definitely a contributing factor.
Man, some people must be gluttons for punishment!

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She was really mad at him after he made that comment.
No kiddin'!
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:23 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Ditto 5x or 6x whatever the count is.
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Old 10-21-2009, 09:46 PM
 
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This is one reason dating someone from an advert is just sooo not my thing. In "real" life two people meet, like the look of each other, have a bit of a chat, then maybe one asks the other out. There shouldn't be any issues about whether they will change to be your type, because if you didn't like the look of them, why the he** did you ask or accept a date with them?
Well that's the same thing as online dating.
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Old 10-21-2009, 09:47 PM
 
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Would you consider such a remark an insult? Would you accept such a compromise? Would you break it off?
You really need to ask this???
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Old 10-21-2009, 09:58 PM
 
Location: Pa
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What Pitt said. Then I would seduce him, get him to a point where his pants were off and was fully aroused, stand back, disappointingly gasp, shake my head in disgust and say, "Oh gawd. No. I can't be with that thing, oh gawd, it looked so much bigger through your pants. For real?! Is this one of those Spencers Toys jokes??!!! You sure you haven't something maybe a bit bigger hiding behind that you planned to use instead?!"

Then I would dump him.
That was sooooooo funny I just spit out my drink.
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Old 10-21-2009, 10:06 PM
 
Location: USA
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Sorry 'bout that, Rae.

So serious. I would make that man feel like the epitome of $HiiiX six different ways into next Sunday.
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