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You can still notice hot men but why do you or some people feel the need to mention it in front of their s/o??
WHy should yuor s/o care or want to hear that??
Are you trying to get him jealous or do you just have no filter??
No filter? Please explain what you mean I like to know what turns my husband on as I ponder that and find it very interesting the human mind and what turns us on. It is usually a mix of physical and mental things that do it. Needless to say this is not my only topic of conversation I am just talking about this right now
It's all about the context of the compliment. If a woman I am with sees a hot guy on television and makes some "ooo baby" remark I could care less. It's all just in fun. Now if we're in a restaurant and a handsome waiter is serving us and she tells me "He is sooo hot" in a way that's not meant to be funny as though she's talking out loud to herself, well that's different. Some couples are more secure than others, and they can joke about that sort of thing. Others are more tightly wound and you cannnot even glance at an attractive celebrity on TV without causing WWIII.
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Originally Posted by thebobs
Yes you both can comment on if someone is attractive. However if it comes down to this, then its not good.
Her: Wow our waiter is very hot.
Him: He does have that Mr. Olympus look to him.
Her: I mean really really hot. Love those buns.
Him: I'm thinking of having a sex change.
Her: That's nice dear. Wow look at him bend over!!!
Him: In fact I'm going to have "it" cut off.
Her: That's nice dear. *Makes kissy faces at the waiter*
Hey, where is this restaurant you speak of with these hot waiters? I'm going to have lunch there!!
No filter? Please explain what you mean I like to know what turns my husband on as I ponder that and find it very interesting the human mind and what turns us on. It is usually a mix of physical and mental things that do it. Needless to say this is not my only topic of conversation I am just talking about this right now
I dont think its awful or anyhting i just always wondered why some people have to mention it in front of their partners
Why would we want to hear that???Like... hey great if you were single you might have sex with him thats tremendous im glad you told me that its vital information for me
I dont think its awful or anyhting i just always wondered why some people have to mention it in front of their partners
Why would we want to hear that???Like... hey great if you were single you might have sex with him thats tremendous im glad you told me that its vital information for me
See what im saying?
Or the "Wild Kingdom" way things are done, as in, "hmm.....vital information here..........my mate finds this other lion/gorilla/chimpanzee/shark attractive......that means he is a threat to the future viability of my genetic line.............let me go find him and eliminate him from the planet."
Exactly its about respect, Integrity and comitmment to your partner. Cleary you are lacking in all three.
I totally agree with this. Even if your partner isnt around and its just you and your co-workers or friends, it totally makes you look scumy to mention out loud that someone you see is superhot. Like someone else said, its one thing to see someone on tv, on the computer or in a magazine and say it, but to be out around people and say it makes you look bad.
I sometimes comment that men are super hot and sometimes I get told by other men that I am married and shouldn't be noticing
So let me get this right. You are out and/or around other men, and you notice a guy who is "super hot", and you make a comment around these other men you are out and/or around with that the guy is "superhot" and when the men you are with are surprised/shocked and tell you that its innappropriate because you married, this doesnt bother you at all? Or, are you one of those women who think its "cool" to be this way around guys because you want them to think of you as one of the guys?
Or the "Wild Kingdom" way things are done, as in, "hmm.....vital information here..........my mate finds this other lion/gorilla/chimpanzee/shark attractive......that means he is a threat to the future viability of my genetic line.............let me go find him and eliminate him from the planet."
haha exactly..I think women do it because they want their s/o to get jealous
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I like to know what turns my husband on as I ponder that and find it very interesting the human mind and what turns us on. It is usually a mix of physical and mental things that do it. Needless to say this is not my only topic of conversation I am just talking about this right now
