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Men like mystery, and they like a challenge. Maybe your husband is bored because you're too available. Become invested in your own life! Get in great shape, read books about sex and sensuality, get a hobby, hang out more with your friends. Become someone that is sexy, because it comes from your self-confidence and your love of life, not from your insecure desire to please your husband.
I would definitely find a woman attractive who is taking her health and well-being into her own hands. I want a woman that will know that she has to be important to herself.
Take action and create out of yourself, a person that knows she's an asset to the world. Someone with purpose.
I don't mind leading but my soul mate has to be a leader side by side with me. Not aggressive, but filled with PASSION!
She should love and be content with herself.
Now that I described my future soul mate...
have you ever considered that maybe it's not you at all?
It could be a problem or issue with him. How you find out is sort of tricky. Don't pry. Men have this little thing called an "ego" that make them not want to admit they are vulnerable. I have no problem with this, but many men do.
If you want to know what it is, you cannot ask him to tell you. Coax it out of him by telling him a story about yourself. Something that makes you out to be vulnerable and ask him his much needed opinion. When he gives it to you, let him know that he is your best friend and that you hope that he considers you the same. Assure him that anything you two share is sacred.
If he doesn't give in the first time, give him some more. He'll give in eventually. Let him know that his problems are your problems and if he needs you to sling up to go to battle with them, that you're ready to do just that.
Good one. Also, tell him you're putting yourself on a strict budget and you're going to buy him a great present (a surprise, something you know he's wanted a while) with the money you save. When you do something that unselfish with your money, men associate that with unconditional love and that's pretty sexy to them, (in small doses!)
Definitely try wearing an outfit that is low-cut and revealing. And try suggesting sexy things that you two can do together. If he's STILL not responding...well...I don't know what else to suggest :-(
I don't think my husband is sexually attracted to me anymore, and I would really like to change that.
What is the sexiest thing a woman can do for a man? What is the sexiest thing I can wear to bed (color, type of lingerie, etc), around the house, out on a date? What could we do on a date that would be sexy?
What drives men crazy?
Looking for some male opinions!
Step outside your comfort zone. Hey, even lobster gets tiring if you have it night after night for years. Show him just how sexy you can be.
I don't think my husband is sexually attracted to me anymore, and I would really like to change that.
What is the sexiest thing a woman can do for a man? What is the sexiest thing I can wear to bed (color, type of lingerie, etc), around the house, out on a date? What could we do on a date that would be sexy?
What drives men crazy?
Looking for some male opinions!
Anything that shows your best assets... ie boobs and butt would be appreciated. Then just take charge while he's lounging on the sofa or chair kneel down and go downtown. He'll love you for it. Put a glass of beer or Johnny Walker Black in his hands while you're at it...
Most men generally stop chasing after what they've already caught. Try being a little more self-assured, aloof, and sexy without trying to attract him. Treat yourself well, show confidence, and know what you're worth. Let him chase you, not vice versa.
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