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Hmmm... he has shared some, it seems he's had a lot of girlfriends? not sure on that, but I can not fault him for that I've had tons of bfs
Nothing too negative about the girlfriends, I know the last one, whom he was engaged to, cheated... I do not really know much about the rest, just normal "I used to date this girl that..." kind of thing.
His family migrated to the US when he was 6 or so... and I've yet to meet them, once I do I think I can analize the situation from that point of view, from what I've seeing he's got a great relationship with both mom and dad, and with his brother. He loves his niece...
Aight. But I still say keep your eyes and ears open. And not to belabor this or spread paranoia, but I still think you should ask questions regarding the things I mentioned earlier. People have a tendency to share "just enough" information about themselves sometimes. Hence your post about full disclosure. I'd still ask probing questions about his past relationships and childhood. I'm sure you're smart and would know how to do it so you get answers without seeming like you're looking for them. People seem to share more when it doesn't come off as an interragation. Ex. Bring up the Rihanna case to open up discussion. Then ask him if he's ever witnessed someone being physically abused. If so, what did he do?
Aight. But I still say keep your eyes and ears open. And not to belabor this or spread paranoia, but I still think you should ask questions regarding the things I mentioned earlier. People have a tendency to share "just enough" information about themselves sometimes. Hence your post about full disclosure. I'd still ask probing questions about his past relationships and childhood. I'm sure you're smart and would know how to do it so you get answers without seeming like you're looking for them. People seem to share more when it doesn't come off as an interragation. Ex. Bring up the Rihanna case to open up discussion. Then ask him if he's ever witnessed someone being physically abused. If so, what did he do?
I got really excited and punched him in the arm... you know like a love punch kind of thing, not hard at all... and he flipped his lid!!! he got so mad at me!!!!
It was really awkward for like 10 minutes after that and after the silence he said he did not like that and that he hoped I would never do it again...
If this is true, I would let his @@@ go and not look back! He's got serious issues. And the only reason you don't have a black eye/bruises right now is because: 1. You were in a sports bar around witnesses. 2. You're in the beginning phase of relations where people HIDE (as best they can) there faults.
I'm okay with playful taps, I do it to my buddies all the time and some may do it to me. Some people don't like it and that's fine; say so and be done with it. It is hardly anything to ruin a full day over.
The idea of him becoming enraged like that in a public setting, demanding an apology and calling it an early day would have turned me off right then and there. It screams narcissism, anger and control issues.
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he got so mad at me!!!! 
