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Old 11-13-2009, 12:33 AM
 
Location: Illinois
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Let's say you have been dating a woman for a little while and things are getting serious, but have not had sex yet. If she had a FWB previous to dating you and broke off the FWB when you two started dating seriously (maybe after the first 3 or 4 dates), would you want to know about him? Or would you rather she kept that information to herself?
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Old 11-13-2009, 12:56 AM
 
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I honestly wouldn't care either way.. It doesn't matter who she was THEN, what matters is who she is NOW. The past is the past, no matter what skeletons lie there, that's where they'll remain.
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Old 11-13-2009, 01:00 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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If she broke it off before you started dating, NOYB.
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Old 11-13-2009, 04:17 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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If she tells me thats fine. If she doesnt tell me thats fine too.
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Old 11-13-2009, 08:35 AM
 
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FWB?

Hmm?

I would say if he just does her hair the same way I'd be alright with it.

I'm sorry what?

I know what "FWB" is alright!
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Old 11-13-2009, 08:41 AM
 
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On an unconscious level, yes this bothers me, and I can't control that.

Practically speaking though it is unreasonable to get upset over this.

So yes I suppose I'd have a slight preference that she kept it to herself. I know I have no interest in explaining anything about my past.
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Old 11-13-2009, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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No, I wouldn't want to know. Honestly, it's not important to me, unless of course she had a revolving door in her bedroom with a "Take a Number Please" dispenser by the side of the bed. I actually prefer a woman who has some experience and is comfortable in her sexuality, then someone who is very inhibited and clumsy.

For guys who would be put off by a girl who has had a FWB, yet enjoys the sex with her, how do you think she learned some of her favorite moves?
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Old 11-13-2009, 09:04 AM
 
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What is an FWB?
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Old 11-13-2009, 09:33 AM
 
Location: Maryland
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At first I thought fat white boy but then friends with benefits came to mind.
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Old 11-13-2009, 09:44 AM
 
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Before this point of my life I would ask, at this point of my life I don't give furry rat's a$$ about it.
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