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Old 11-13-2009, 08:23 PM
 
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Going just on looks - I don't care for skinny guys or built guys. I like average men who are toned, but not all muscle-y.

If he has nice arms, I'm putty in his hands. sigh.
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Old 11-13-2009, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Going just on looks - I don't care for skinny guys or built guys. I like average men who are toned, but not all muscle-y.

If he has nice arms, I'm putty in his hands. sigh.
Hell yeah!
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Old 11-13-2009, 08:56 PM
 
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In the end, we all gravitate to those we perceive we have a "chance" with. If you're attracted to average, almost guaranteed you're average yourself. Like a little junk in the back, probably sporting saddle bags yourself.

I'll come out and say it, I go after the hottest woman in the room. Draw your own conclusion from that.
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Old 11-14-2009, 01:06 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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No way. Most gym rats/jocks I've met have been vain, judgemental, and too competitive. Not my cup of tea.
What she said!!!!!!!

And I don't want a man who is prettier than me, uses a mirror more than me, and takes longer to get ready!
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Old 11-14-2009, 02:07 AM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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No.
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Old 11-14-2009, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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In the end, we all gravitate to those we perceive we have a "chance" with. If you're attracted to average, almost guaranteed you're average yourself. Like a little junk in the back, probably sporting saddle bags yourself.

I'll come out and say it, I go after the hottest woman in the room. Draw your own conclusion from that.
Exhibit A: vain, judgmental, competitive.

Not that there's anything wrong with that.
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Old 11-14-2009, 08:37 PM
 
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and i don't want a man who is prettier than me, uses a mirror more than me, and takes longer to get ready!
lol.
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Old 11-14-2009, 09:47 PM
 
Location: SE Florida
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Hey, we stereotyping gym rats? Once upon a long time ago, I was a gym rat, studied martial arts, etc. But I was a nice one, never hung up on myself. I basically worked out cause it made me feel great. A thing called endorphins, I've always been the quiet type, worked out and kept to myself and never had an ego or anything like that. I can't and have not worked out much for quite a long while, but still hold some of my physical traits from way back then. Helps me now today with my stone sculpture work.
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Old 11-14-2009, 10:25 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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Default so how much difference does a man's body make when you first meet him?

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You walk into a get-together and there are people you don't know.

There are 3 chubby guys, 1 guy who's very overweight, two stick-skinny guys, and 4 guys with average builds... and then 1 guy who is clearly a gym rat. He doesn't look like he uses steroids, but he's got a broad upper body, powerful arms, and you can see he is lean and has mass.

As far as the faces go, they are all about the same... even the fit guy.

Will you automatically gravitate towards the gym rat?
I'm all about a guy having a great smile, sense of humour that compliments mine and having a decently high IQ. Personality is more important than his body. As long as he has good hygiene, I'm willing to converse with him.

In the room you describe, I would avoid the gym rat and probably approach him last. I'm just not attracted to men that are so much into body building. Probably because I'm pretty relaxed about my own body upkeep. A guy with an average body build is just fine with me. I prefer a man built for comfort to cuddle with.
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Old 11-14-2009, 10:27 PM
 
Location: southern california
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no but definitely gravitate towards any rat, they are fun. please leave mr boring at home.
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