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You have a jealous and insecure girlfriend. That is a huge problem and I would get rid of her post haste. You are doomed to a life of misery if she doesn't take care of that.
When you're single, you can request any kind of masseuse you want. But when you are attached, requesting an attractive woman would be disrespectful. Treating yourself to a massage is one thing, treating yourself to a massage from a hot young hottie is not all about therapeutics.
The idea that you would want to lie as opposed to compromising is also a red flag. Whether she is a basket case or not, she has a right to know. So, ask yourself, are you lying to prevent her from being hurt or are you lying because you don't want to give up the hotness in your massages? You can still get a massage, but would you lose interest in it if it was performed by an ugly woman?
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This question is directed to ladies but anyone is free to respond.
If your SO wanted a professional, legitimate massage from an attractive young woman, would this bother you?
I have had professional massages before but always select attractive young women. I love getting them. They're kind of a personal luxury when I can afford them.
BTW, I'm talking of legitimate massages, none of the "massage parlor" fronts for the oldest profession. I do always want women masseurs just because I would rather be stroked by a woman rather than a man. I do enjoy the conversation as well and I may as well have a pretty face to look at.
My new girlfriend is the jealous type and I would hesitate to tell her of my massages. She gets upset when I am too friendly with women I work with, even though there is no reason to be. I suspect the massages would bother her. I don't plan to tell her but I was curious if any other women would find this troublesome.
I could care less about stuff like this! This kind of thing would not bother me in the least as long as we are on equal playing grounds! You get a massage from a hot young girl, believe that I will get a massage from a hot young man!!!
After months of lurking on this forum, I just registered and am ready to dive into the pool.
This question is directed to ladies but anyone is free to respond.
If your SO wanted a professional, legitimate massage from an attractive young woman, would this bother you?
I have had professional massages before but always select attractive young women. I love getting them. They're kind of a personal luxury when I can afford them.
BTW, I'm talking of legitimate massages, none of the "massage parlor" fronts for the oldest profession. I do always want women masseurs just because I would rather be stroked by a woman rather than a man. I do enjoy the conversation as well and I may as well have a pretty face to look at.
My new girlfriend is the jealous type and I would hesitate to tell her of my massages. She gets upset when I am too friendly with women I work with, even though there is no reason to be. I suspect the massages would bother her. I don't plan to tell her but I was curious if any other women would find this troublesome.
I feel very secure in my relationship and would have no problem with my SO getting a massage from an attractive woman.
I think it's about trusting the person you're in a relationship with.When there's no trust within a relationship then that relationship is in trouble.
it depends, are you purposely seeking out an attractive masseuse or just taking whomever they give you when you go to these legitimate spas?? I get massages now and then and do prefer a man (hands are stronger) but have recently had a really good massage by a woman and I'd go back and see her. To be honest though, when I go to the spa for a massage, the last thing on my mind is what my masseuse looks like. I'm more interested in their qualifications and experience.
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