Girldfriends sexual history is tearing us apart ADVICE please! (wife, man, mature)
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Girls just wanna have fun too... why is it okay for men to bang anything on two legs, but if a woman enjoys sex and has had multiple partners in her life, she's a sl*t.
This double standard crap just ticks me off. We all know that men NEVER have sex just because it feels good......
missymomof3 - that is a great question. Mathmatically, if their are roughly the same amount of girls as their are guys in this world, the average sexual partners for guys must equal that of guys! But say the average guy upped his number a few and the average girl downed her number afew. This would still mean the average is around 5. My girlfriends still triples that with guys she was not emotionally attatched to. I need help with how to break up with her
She has not been tested for STI's but has had a gyno visit. I knew she had multiple partners from the get go. We had been friends throughout college ; ) I really need help with how to let this girl down easy. I seriously care about her, and dont want her to ever think that she isn't good enough b/c of her past. Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.
Why?
Isn't that what it all boils down to?
Why not just show her exactly how shallow you are. I'm sure she'll run in the opposite direction.
By the way... how do yo uknow the average girl in your class didn't simply LIE?
Exactly. Not that I condone lying per se, but I can see why some women do it in that case. Thank goodness I haven't had a single wacko asking such questions in my life. Oh, well, had there been some, they would've become acquianted with the front door pretty quickly anyway.
Rakin - she is a 1st class lady(beautiful, smart, just all around awesome except for her history which i cannot get over. Beleive me i feel so immature about it but at the end of the day i cant get over it. I hope she does find the man of her dreams one day and makes him the happiest man on earth. She deserves it.)
Kele - I know girls want to have fun, i just dont want one who has had 3 times the fun as everyone else with guys she is not emptionally attatched too. I clearly stated that im not holding a double standard here. If she was with 13 partners that were all "legitimate" as in relationships, i would be more understanding.
So are you also 22? I ask because you say that these 6-8 women you sexed you were in serious relationships with them so that makes it more acceptable according to you. Well at 22, these must have been pretty quick relationships. Are you sure you're just not getting some commitment phobia and wanting to use any reason to get out?
This response may not be popular, but then again I don't give a
Hmmmmm lets see: She says 14 then add the honesty act plus the BS tax equals that I think that she's not being truthful about the total mileage and riders she's had and who knows what else.
Rakin - she is a 1st class lady(beautiful, smart, just all around awesome except for her history which i cannot get over. Beleive me i feel so immature about it but at the end of the day i cant get over it. I hope she does find the man of her dreams one day and makes him the happiest man on earth. She deserves it.)
Kele - I know girls want to have fun, i just dont want one who has had 3 times the fun as everyone else with guys she is not emptionally attatched too. I clearly stated that im not holding a double standard here. If she was with 13 partners that were all "legitimate" as in relationships, i would be more understanding.
HELP WITH THE BREAK UP PLEASE?????
Oh, I see...
So it would have been okay if she had been in love with her 13 sex partners?
Buddy, you've got more problems than anyone on this board can solve......
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