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I haven't taken anything personal. I just call people out on their BS.
I've seen too many women still want men to play traditional roles, but they refuse to do their end of the deal. Can't have it both ways.
How do you know how calipoppy acts to conclude that she doesn't deserve to be treated like a lady? Can't judge all the women of the world based on the bottom feeders you pal around with.
I'll wait for her reply and see if she is willing to do all the roles a traditional woman should do i.e. cooking, cleaning, being submissive etc. or if she's a hypocritical female, like the rest of them. I somehow doubt that, but I hope to be proven wrong. For once in my life.
I'll wait for her reply and see if she is willing to do all the roles a traditional woman should do i.e. cooking, cleaning, being submissive etc. or if she's a hypocritical female, like the rest of them. I somehow doubt that, but I hope to be proven wrong. For once in my life.
Awww someone has a chip on his shoulder because his past relationships have all been duds so now he's going to take it out on all the other women he comes in contact with and then wonder why he keeps getting told off
Awww someone has a chip on his shoulder because his past relationships have all been duds so now he's going to take it out on all the other women he comes in contact with and then wonder why he keeps getting told off
So who is being judgemental now? LOL
I have several female friends whom I respect highly and I'd do anything for. I've had successful relationships which we parted ways on good terms, and I've had failure relationships - just like anyone else. Not sure where you get your information from that I "keep getting told off" lol. Easy now, can't judge all men of the world based on the bottom feeders you pal around with.
I have several female friends whom I respect highly and I'd do anything for. I've had successful relationships which we parted ways on good terms, and I've had failure relationships - just like anyone else. Not sure where you get your information from that I "keep getting told off" lol. Easy now, can't judge all men of the world based on the bottom feeders you pal around with.
I'm not being judgmental (only one E) I'm reading the information you provided and coming to a probable conclusion.
Let me elaborate:
Calipoppy said she expects to be treated like a lady; you quickly retort that you doubt she acts like one, followed by “many” women don’t know how to act like proper ladies. When pressed further you admitted that you’ve met some truly, awful women therefore it would be logical to assume that your comment about women not knowing how to act like proper ladies is based on the little girls with teenage hormones and a massive sense of entitlement that you’ve directly encountered.
To further prove this assumption, after calipoppy stated that things that she feels a real man would not do, you responded with “I don’t need a female to tell me[snip] what a "real man “ Now since calipoppy wasn’t directing this comment at you directly; your urgent rebuff makes me think that you have encountered several women (or little girls with teenage hormones and a massive sense of entitlement) who have tried to tell you what a real man is.
Finally, your last comment “she's a hypocritical female, like the rest of them” pretty much speaks for itself.
So you see, I am not judging you at all. I am merely forming a collage with the images you have presented.
[quote=msindy32;11982879]Where are all the good black men? The question is why can't women hold on to those good men. You don't have to be black or white or orange. I am young black male that has experienced and knows others (of different races) that has experienced the same thing. I am a nice guy and you know the saying. Women always claim that they want a nice guy and this and that, but when they come across one they either treat him like he's that guy who hurt you. Or you feel uncomfortable around him because he is not calling you all kinds of names. So to me it seems like a lot of women have chased your so called " good black men off"
Finally, your last comment “she's a hypocritical female, like the rest of them” pretty much speaks for itself. .
Nice of you to do your selective quoting. I did put an "if" but you excluded that from your post, and only copied what was relevant to your argument.
I did start with saying that "I'll wait for her reply" and finished it by saying I hope to be proven wrong. But hey, continue with your selective quoting.
Nice of you to do your selective quoting. I did put an "if" but you excluded that from your post, and only copied what was relevant to your argument.
I did start with saying that "I'll wait for her reply" and finished it by saying I hope to be proven wrong. But hey, continue with your selective quoting.
It wasn't selective; I just only quoted the important parts. The rest were all just filler words.
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Originally Posted by msindy32
Where are all the good black men? The question is why can't women hold on to those good men. You don't have to be black or white or orange. I am young black male that has experienced and knows others (of different races) that has experienced the same thing. I am a nice guy and you know the saying. Women always claim that they want a nice guy and this and that, but when they come across one they either treat him like he's that guy who hurt you. Or you feel uncomfortable around him because he is not calling you all kinds of names. So to me it seems like a lot of women have chased your so called " good black men off"
It's an age thing; my grandfather would have agreed with you 100%. He always used to tell us that a man should accept a woman's help in certain situations but never expect it. Courting is pretty much dead except for the few men who still place value on those traditional roles.
When women expect more of men, we usually get more. A lot of men are no longer gentlemen because a lot of women do not require it.
When I require men to "act like a gentleman" around me, I usually get more respect and treated accordingly. Its true, it is an age thing but I am in my 30s and I wouldn't have it any other way.
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