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Old 11-14-2009, 03:28 AM
 
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I had a "spur-of-the-moment" date tonight with a woman I recently met online. We met at a Starbucks and immediately engaged in a very nice free flowing conversation. Before we realized it, we were informed the store was about to close.

Not knowing exactly where to go at 11pm, we opted to continue our conversation in her car. Forty-five minutes later we were engaged in a barrage of serious kissing. Even though I initiated the action, I was expecting some resistance, but none was offered. I was almost hoping for some.

Admittedly, I'm not completely aesthetically unappealing. But, neither am I extremely handsome. The only factor I can point to that may have broken down her inhibitions was our nice free flowing conversation which covered a gamut of topics. She felt comfortable with me. However, I did not expect for her to accept my advances so rapidly.

How do interpret this? Is she merely an "easy woman?" Were we just two adults with similar needs at similar times? Is it possible that we share a spontaneous chemistry which made it easy for us to kiss wildly on a first date?

Ladies??? Your points of views will be most appreciated.
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Old 11-14-2009, 04:37 AM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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If she is easy, so are you.
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Old 11-14-2009, 04:46 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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I ain't a lady but I figure if she was that easy for you, she will be that easy for any other guy she meets.
Better keep a raincoat handy.
And hide your wallet.
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Old 11-14-2009, 05:38 AM
 
Location: Prescott Valley, Az (unfortunately still here)
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To me, it sounded like a wonderful date (wished some of my past dates was that simple and nice). Thank God I'm engaged now to a wonderful man.

I think if she starts asking you to loan her money, then I'd be worried, I think. But it sounds like you had a great time though.
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Old 11-14-2009, 05:49 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Why does everything have to be analyzed after just one date? That's what dating is about - getting to know someone. See what happens on the next date and, if you're not comfortable with an acceleration of the relationship then you can apply the brakes. Easy.
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Old 11-14-2009, 06:12 AM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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LOL personally when I did that much on the first date it's because I wasn't interested in a second and the guy had slid his way into my FWB lane (well not really Friend) but everybody is different
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Old 11-14-2009, 06:21 AM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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I think it's too early to tell. It sounds like you had a great conversation that proceeded the car action. I'd set up a second date and see what happens.
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Old 11-14-2009, 07:10 AM
 
Location: USA
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If it was just making out, that's not bad. You both are just pretty into each other. Now, if she would have went down your pants, she might be easy.
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Old 11-14-2009, 07:25 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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Damn, yall can't even blame it on the alcohol since yall were at Starbucks....lolllllllllll

Yeah, I'd say she was a little easy. I'm not WILDLY going to kiss a man, I JUST met (from on-line at that) for the first time on a date.....How do I know you don't have HSV-1 on your lips, ready to erupt into a cold sore at any moment.....
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Old 11-14-2009, 07:29 AM
 
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Originally Posted by chacho_keva View Post

How do interpret this? Is she merely an "easy woman?" Were we just two adults with similar needs at similar times? Is it possible that we share a spontaneous chemistry which made it easy for us to kiss wildly on a first date?

Ladies??? Your points of views will be most appreciated.
Just because she's willing to kiss you doesn't mean she's easy.
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